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LOVE
A brief-essay about LOVE

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Love is not truly love; in the absence of honesty, justice, balance,
civility, hospitality, generosity, patience, kindness and many other
complementary virtues.


Love is not made real by unilaterally declaring love to be present.
Domineering people cannot truly be in love, because they cannot be
loyal supporters of The Domination System, while at the same time being
truly: honest, just, balanced, civil, hospitable, generous, patience
or kind.  Such conflicts of interests cannot be maintained with
integrity.


True lovers cooperate to graciously understand, stranscend an
"The Domination System".  True lovers do not act unilaterally in
unbalanced ways; certainly not in ways which entail coercion,
violence, domination, dishonesty or deception.  True lovers give
gracious consideration to the needs and desires of vulnerable people.






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        820 LOVE           205 SIN            171 CONTROL
        165 GOD            159 INTEGRITY      158 EVIL
        156 DOMINATION     151 LOVERS         145 SELF
        130 PERSONAL       126 SYSTEM         121 GOOD
        121 CONFLICT        99 HONEST          98 COMMUNAL
         93 RELATIONSHIPS   87 INTIMACY        85 SEX
         81 POWER           81 DIALOGUE        80 VIOLENCE
         80 SECURITY        75 INTIMATE        74 FEAR
         71 LAW             71 HONESTY         71 ADDICT
         66 TRUE            66 PEOPLE          66 ACCEPT
         64 VULNERABLE      62 OPEN            61 RESOLUTION
         61 OTHER           61 BALANCE         60 DEVIL


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