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A brief-essay about DOMINATION


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Anne Wilson Schaef has written that if you are tempted to be dishonest you are addicted; even if you have not "yielded" to the temptation to be dishonest. True lovers are not even tempted to be dishonest, because they know that being dishonest is a sure way to undermine most personal and communal integrities which give meaning and significance to living and loving.

Domineering people who feel that they must be in control to be secure, are often tempted to be dishonest. Many become addicted to collusive games of mutual self deception, while trying to use coercion and violence to achieve security through invulnerability. Such efforts are tragically futile and hopeless, but domineering people do not dare break their collusion's rules by dealing honestly with the futility of their efforts. They would be rejected by their friends if they broke collusion rules! They dare not! Trying to stand together, they fall together.


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        448 DOMINATION     346 SYSTEM         190 SIN
        163 CONTROL        143 GOD            129 SELF
        113 EVIL           111 GOOD           108 DOMINEERING
         94 RELATIONSHIPS   93 LOVERS          92 PERSONAL
         87 VIOLENCE        86 PEOPLE          86 LOVE
         83 DEVIL           81 DEVILS          79 CONFLICT
         77 COERCION        74 INTEGRITY       72 POWER
         71 COMMUNAL        67 SINS            65 VULNERABLE
         62 RESPECT         55 LAWS            54 POWERS
         54 DECEPTION       52 HONOR           52 ARROGANCE
         51 HONESTY         51 HONEST          49 INTIMACY
         48 SECURITY        48 HEALTHY         48 COLLUSION
         46 SUPPORT         46 EXCLUSIVE       46 ALIENATION
         45 SEXUAL          45 MUTUAL          45 COLLUSIVE
         44 ESSENTIAL       43 OPEN            42 SYSTEMS
         42 RESOLUTION      41 DISHONESTY      41 COLLUSIONS
         40 WAR             40 SUBVERT         40 OTHER


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