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%COERCIVE UNILATERAL VIOLENT EXPECTATIONS DEMANDS+990613
%GRACIOUS TENDER MUTUAL AGREEMENT COOPERATION LOVE+990613
%WIN GETTING YES AGREEMENT CONTRACT PROMISE COMMIT+990613
%CONFLICT RESOLUTION PEACEMAKERS WAR DISINTEGRATION 990613
People who are truly in love --- comfortably
expect certain kinds of behaviors of each other;
although not necessarily certain specific actions of each
other.
People who are in contentious and/or conflicted
relationships may unilaterally expect certain specific
actions of each other --- in manners which are coercive,
violent and alienative.
There are many other relationships and corresponding
expectations:
1. Signatories to negotiated contracts.
2. Marriage partners.
3. Teachers and students.
4. Professionals and people whom they serve.
5. Parents and children.
6. Religious leaders and their congregations.
7. Political candidates and supportive parties.
8. Judges, lawyers, plaintiffs and defendants.
9. Military commanders and their soldiers.
Expectations may engender cooperation, conflict,
tension or violence. Some expectations may be
legitimate; others may be quite unreasonable and
illegitimate. Often people disagree about what
expectations are reasonable, and what are unreasonable ---
for the expectations flow from conflicting conceptions of
transcendent ideals, values, principles, commandments,
etc. What may seem so obvious and beyond question to one
person --- may seem to others to be unreasonable,
improper, and objectionable to others. Creative
conflict resolution is often impossible so long as
participants cannot trace the conflicts back to their
unexamined roots --- which may be buried in expectations,
attitudes, and assumptions which have never been
examined or articulated.
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