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%GORDIAN KNOT DOUBLE BIND ULTIMATE CONCERN CONFLICT 990613
The image of the Gordian Knot points to the eternal
tension between exclusive emphases upon attempts to solve
technical problems in ways suggested by words on the left
and right below:
LOVE LAW
SUBMISSION DOMINANCE
LETTING-GO CONTROLS
LIBERATION RESCUE
FORGIVENESS JUSTIFICATION
GIFT PURCHASE
SECURITY DEFENSES
ENJOYMENT SUCCESS
BEING-WHOLE ACHIEVEMENT
SAFE-VULNERABILITY INVULNERABILITY
HONEST-DIALOGUE REPUTATION
INTIMACY COLLUSION
FRIENDSHIP FORMALITY
PRIVATE PUBLIC
REFLEXIVE OBJECTIVE
CONFESSION PROOF
RELATIONSHIPS INDIVIDUALS
HUMILITY ARROGANCE
INCLUSIVITY EXCLUSIVITY
RECONCILIATION JUDGMENT
COOPERATION CONDEMNATION
DIALOGUE EXCOMMUNICATION
LEARNING TEACHING
MENTOR CURRICULUM
EXAMPLE FORMULA
ROLE-MODEL PRESCRIPTION
LOVER JUDGE
TENDERNESS FIRMNESS
INTERNAL EXTERNAL
DILEMMA PROBLEM
PERSONAL TECHNICAL
GRACIOUS LEGALISTIC
INTUITIVE SYSTEMATIC
INTEGRITY CONFORMITY
AFFECTIONATE PROPER
AUTHENTIC RESPECTABLE
RESPONSIVE OBEDIENT
Frustration flows from attempts to solve dilemmas in
just one way --- without any awareness of the truths
pointed to by complementary ways. Often what seem to
be technical problems --- are dilemmas for which there can
be no technical solution. Technical solutions are
often irrelevant to the resolution of reflexive
dilemmas. When there is confusion about the
differences between dilemmas and technical problems ---
neither situation is likely to be dealt with wisely.
The paradigm which is appropriate to one is unlikely to
be appropriate to the other. They cannot be dealt with
wisely if the individual differences between them and
between people confronted by them are not recognized,
named, described and made the focus of open and
honest dialogue.
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