This-essay is a9708071.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %JACK JILL DESIRE INTIMACY SEXUAL TOGETHER DECLINE 970807 Jack wants Jill to want to be sexually intimate with him, or at least go through the motions of being sexually intimate with him. Jill is not so inclined ---for one or more of the following reasons: 1. She does not find Jack sexually attractive. 2. Jack is not emotionally open with her. 3. Jack always seems to want to be in control. 4. Jack is not generally open and honest. 5. Jack is often not considerate and reliable. 6. Jack wants her to compensate for his lacks. 7. She does not want to become sexually active yet. 8. She fears that Jack will take advantage of her. 9. She suspects that Jack has ulterior motives. 10. Parents want too much for her to marry Jack. Each of Jill's reasons is reflexive in nature, not essentially objective in nature. The reasons entail essentially reflexive judgements on Jill's part, even if there are some objective aspects to what she is responding to. None of Jill's reasons are grounded in external prescriptions, proscriptions and/or taboos. Jill is not much concerned with external prescriptions, proscriptions and/or taboos. Jill is concerned with being involved in integrative relationships which are open, honest, mutual, balanced and likely to promote both personal and communal integrity. Jill's authentic reasons for not wanting to be sexually intimate with Jack threaten many people who are primarily concerned with imposing external prescriptions, proscriptions and/or taboos. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================Lines beginning with a percent sign are KEYWORDS for use in ESSAY-System Searches. Their terminal digits are dates of writing in the format @yymmdd#, where @ = a means 99, @ = b means 20, and # = is a within-date essay-count. Links to date-adjacent essays are near page top & bottom.
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