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     Healthy  sexual  relationships usually entail  people
dealing   honestly   with   what  often   appear   to   be
contradictory truths which are tied up in paradoxes.   The
paradoxes have to do with:

     Security                        Vulnerability

     Plans                           Letting Go

     Controls                        Relaxation

     Surrender                       Self-affirmations

     Expectations                    Spontaneity

     Formulas                        Informality

     Desires                         Serenity

     Togetherness                    Spaces

     Fulfillment                     Imperfection

     Rules                           Liberation

     Often people are preoccupied with denying paradoxical
truths  which  appear to be contradictory to their  truths
upon  which they have chosen to fixate in addictive  ways.
Such people often inhibit healthy sexual relationships.

                                                                                                                               
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