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     In many  instances of conflict the fundamental issues
are not at all clear to the participants in the  conflict.
The process of rationalization may have obscured the fear,
anxiety, alienation, and unmet human needs which motivated
the    participants.      Through   objectification    the
participants  may  have come to perceive the  conflict  as
residing  outside  of themselves in the  objective  world,
when its roots and substance reside in their perverted and
repressed affectional relationships.  Through idealization
the   participants  may  have  projected  their   internal
affectional conflicts into the domain of conflicts between
high  ideals.   Their clash of ideals may be an  image  of
internal   clashing  of  affectional  needs   and   social
constraints  upon  the  fulfillment of  their  affectional
needs.  In such instances the participants are unlikely to
perceive  in  any helpful way the basic  values,   issues,
motivations,   and causes of conflict---and so be inept at
conflict resolution, reconciliation.

     Issues may be clarified  in part  by clarification of
values, motivations, and basic human needs.  It is helpful
to  have a common understanding of the processes of  human
relationships.  The understanding of conflict thus depends
upon the various understandings which participants have of
the  basic  structure of human decisions.    Conflict  may
originate in differences between the understandings of the
basic  structure of human relationship and be regarded  as
a  natural and normal aspect of human relationships.   The
common understanding may in hidden ways set the stage  for
tragic  conflict  which the common understanding seeks  to
avoid.    In fact it is possible for the  common  paradigm
designed  to  avoid conflict to itself be the root of  the
conflict   which   it  is  designed   to   avoid;    e.g.,
excommunicating  non-conformists who inject  disagreement,
as a means of reducing conflict.

     Issue  clarification  depends  critically   upon  the
ultimate  purposes  of  those who seek to clarify  issues:
personal   advancement,    revenge,    ego   satisfaction,
compensation, political power, financial gain, exchange of
personal favors, intellectual satisfaction, fulfillment of
childhood fantasies, and visions, etc.

                                                                                                                               
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