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%CORPORATE CHRISTIAN RELIGION CHURCH POWER SIN EVIL+971206 %BLAME GUILT SHAME RESPONSIBILITY SELF OTHER ALIEN 971023 Either/or thinking often gets in the way of clear insight and understanding regarding responsibility. Often either/or people are preoccupied with assigning blame, guilt, shame and responsibility upon others --- not themselves. They are prone to think that it is always: Either Or Others' fault Their own fault Individual fault Communal fault Personal control Fate Nature Nurture Moral Immoral Right Wrong Good Evil Spiritual Worldly Acceptable Rejectable Included Excluded Friend Enemy True False Scriptural Secular Success Failure Win Lose Salvation Damnation When people limit themselves to dichotomous choices they exclude from consideration continuous spectrums of possibilities clear thinking. Then prudent decision making is often impossible. Not all choices must be either one or another. Often there are a multitude of possibilities to choose from. It is not helpful to reduce consideration of a multitude of possible choices to a series of either/or choices --- as is required in most parliamentary rules. Either/or thinking is often used in futile attempts to simplify life which is apparently excessively complicated. Either/or thinking eliminates ambiguity, doubt, uncertainty, paradoxes and much more which makes life complicated. Either/or thinking is often associated with collusive games of mutual self deception. Either/or thinking works to hide from view the misleading aspects of word combinations such as: Holy War Evil Peacemaking Holy Violence Evil Conflict Resolution Holy Coercion Evil Tolerance Holy Excommunication Evil Intimacy Holy Alienation Evil Forgiveness (c) 1997 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Integrity and Honesty" (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)