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%OUR OWN THREATENING BEHAVIOR INTENTIONS PARANOIDS+990705
%CALMING KINDLY GENTLE GRACIOUS APPEARANCES MINDS+990705
%PEACEMAKING CONFLICT RESOLUTION MILITARY WARS SINS 990705
Our own behaviors may be perceived and regarded as
threatening by others --- even when on our part there is
no desire, intention, or awareness to threaten, harm,
embarrass, coerce or do violence. Due to their own
attitudes, assumptions and manners of perception --- other
people may feel/be threatened by us --- when we have no
such intentions. Other people's perceptions and feeling
may be the seeds of conflicts and violence --- when we
remain ignorant of and indifferent toward them. To
minimize fears, anxieties, "threats", coercion and
violence --- we need to intentionally send convincing
signals of our gracious, integrative and gentle intentions
and desires. It is not enough to be free of intentional
desires to threaten, coerce and/or violate other people.
After all the roles here describe are often reversed. We
need to anticipate, look for, and respond helpfully to
occasions of such "reversal".
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