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%VOLUNTARY ENJOYMENT PLEASURE FULFILLMENT CONTROL 990416
People who are preoccupied with issues of control
often feel/believe that they have a right, privilege
and/or duty to participate in the control of other
people's enjoyment/fulfillment of their God-given unique
gifts and potentials. Toward the fulfillment of their
right, privileges and/or duties such people see it as
right, necessary and/or proper --- to participate in the
control of other people's experiences of shame,
guilt and/or alienation. Such people find it difficult
to recognize sin and evil in their own behaviors and
relationships ---because they do not recognize or
acknowledge sin and evil as rooted in and engendering
alienation, estrangement and broken
relationships/dialogue --- they show little concern
regarding the breakdown of communications through which
people voluntarily share their most significant
experiences in intimate relationships which are not
controlled by other people.
People enjoy the fulfillment of their God-given
unique gifts and potentials --- through the sharing of
gifts of the freedom to be safely vulnerable in the
voluntary telling of stories about their most
significant experiences in relationships which are
not controlled by other people. Therein people enjoy
security as the freedom to be safely vulnerable. People
who are preoccupied with issues of control find that
insight terrifying --- because it threatens their
finding their enjoyment/fulfillment through the control
of other people and of their experiences of shame, guilt
and/or alienation. They fear insights which threaten the
apparent integrity of their collusive games of mutual
self deception. Their security and sense of meaning
are both based upon dishonest foundations.
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