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%APPROACH PERSON RELATION ASSUMPTION EXPECT AGENDA+990213
%PURPOSE MOTIVATION FRUIT MEETING BRING GIFTS EVILS+990213
%ALIENATION PREJUDICE CONFUSION SUSPICION DISTRUST+990213
%MISUNDERSTAND LISTEN COOPERATE MANIPULATE SINS GOD+990213
%SECURITY DEFENSE INVULNERABILITY HEALTH DISEASE 990213
Various people approach other persons with differing
assumptions, expectations, purposes, motivations, agendas,
etc. The fruits of various approaches and meetings
depends upon the inter-relationships between what
people bring with them. Often what people bring with
them --- are so at odds with what other people have
brought with them ---that their meetings are dominated
by: suspicion, distrust, misunderstanding, confusions,
prejudice, and alienation. Their meetings are often
devoid of listening for understanding. They find
listening, understanding and cooperation suspect.
Hidden agendas dominate. Many people get into the
habit of expecting coercion, manipulations, suspicion
and competition --- and expect people to be searching
for security through taking advantage of vulnerability
as the key to security through invulnerability.
Under the above circumstances people may expect
other people to behave in UN-healthy ways --- and so
always be on the defensive against people behaving in un-
healthy ways. Dis-eased relationships appear normal; and
relaxed relationships seem abnormal; grounds for
suspicion. How are people to heal and enjoy healthy
relationships which are characterized by shalom, peace,
personal integrity and communal integrity? How are
unhealthy communities and relationships to heal?
Through old people who are certain that they know it all;
or through young children who ask essential new
questions based upon renewing assumptions,
expectations, purposes, motivations, and visions?
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