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   %STYLES KINDS TYPES RELATIONSHIPS EXCLUSIVE SELF+980723                       
   %OTHER ALIENS DEVIL RIGHTEOUS ARROGANCE INTIMATE+980723       
 %COOPERATIVE CONTEST CONFLICT COERCIVE VIOLENT SIN+980723           
%JUDGMENTAL BETTER BEST WINNER LOSER ENEMY GOODNESS 980723                                                                     
                                                                                                                               
     The  kinds  of  people  with whom we  are  intimately                     
associated --- flow from the kinds of relationships out of                                                              
which we have come, and into which we have entered; e.g.,  
                                                                                                                               
     1.  Exclusive  coercive  relationships  within  which                       
participants focus upon agreements,  conformity, controls,            
expectations, unity,  loyalty,   discipline;   boundaries,                                                                     
defenses,   protection,   enemies,  traitors,   standards,                                                                     
qualifications,    prerequisites,    either/or,    in/out,                                                                     
judgements,     condemnations,     rules,     regulations,                                                                     
prescriptions and proscriptions.                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
     2.  Competitive  relationships in keeping with formal                                                              
and/or informal rules:  of collusive games,  transactions,                                                   
contracts,   business,  politics, elections, war, mergers,                                                           
etc.                                                                                                                           
                                                                                                                               
     3.  Cooperative relationships focused upon  increased                                                              
mutual  understanding,  support,  creativity,   education,                         
constructions, and friendship.                                                                                                 
                                                                                                                               
     4.  Intimate   relationships  in  which  participants                     
truly  become  as  one in dialogue ---   even  though  not                                                                     
homogenized in: being, perceptions, experiences, thoughts,        
attitudes, conformity, or behaviors.            
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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