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%LACKS SUBSTITUTION COMPENSATIONS EXCHANGES ABSENCE+970919
%DISHONEST REPLACEMENTS PRETENTIONS MASKS FACES 970919
Personal and communal disintegration occur when ---
because of "lacks" of one kind or another ---substitutions
and compensations are made; whereby something other than
that which is lacking dishonestly stands-in for whatever
it is that is lacking.
POSSIBLE "LACK" PROBABLE SUBSTITUTION
Love Possessiveness
True-security Defensiveness
Acceptance Demands
Balance Specialization
Tolerance Certainty
Humility Arrogance
Honesty Appearances
Understanding Sophistication
Discernment Complexity
Each substitution tends to make matters worse, rather
than better. However, the logic for making the
substitution often makes the substitution appear to be an
improvement over that which was lacking --- and so
motivated the making of the substitution. The
seriousness of the original "lack" is denied, because the
"lack" was and is too painful to acknowledge how serious
the "lack" was/is because of how vulnerable and needy the
"lack" made/makes one feel. The substitution does not
fill the fundamental need for what was and is still
lacking.
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