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%PLAY DRAMA STAGE SELECT EXCLUSIVE AUDIENCE GOAL+970526
%CONFLICT RESOLUTION PEACEMAKER FIND COMMON GROUND 970526
How healthy we and our communities are --- depends
greatly upon how we select the audience to which we play
in the dramas of our lives.
We each have in mind an "audience" for whom we act
out our lives. In the "audience" which we have chosen are
the past, present, and future, people whose opinions count
most in our lives. We care how they feel and what they
think. We want to impress them favorably.
Unless we are unusually careful, we are prone to
choose for our "audience" a rather "select" group of
people; people who are prone to agree with each other
about many controversial issues. We play out our lives
on imaginary stages in front of "select" and "exclusive"
audiences ---because we want to think highly of ourselves
through the egos of people whom we think highly of.
If we play out the dramas of our lives in front of
"select" and "exclusive" audiences --- we will be unable
to Find Common Ground and resolve conflicts in any
creative ways --- because we will have excluded from our
"audiences" those important people whom we do not think
highly of ourselves. We do not care what they feel or
think! We are unwilling to take into account what they
feel or think. We cannot resolve conflicts with them ---
because we are unwilling to listen to, empathize with, or
cooperate with them in finding "win-win" solutions to the
dilemmas which we inevitably face with them, even if not
face to face.
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