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%INTEGRITY CHALLENGE COLLUSIVE GAME MUTUAL SELF SIN+970419
%DECEPTION DISHONEST DIVERSITY PREJUDICE IMPOSSIBLE 970419
One person's personal integrity may be a challenge to
another person's collusive games of mutual self deception.
The person who is playing collusive games of mutual self
deception may be unable to tolerate people of integrity---
for people of integrity by being people of integrity often
expose the lack of integrity of people who are playing
collusive games of mutual self deception.
Collusive games of mutual self deception often entail
pretending that it is impossible to be people of integrity
in the absence of:
1. A system of "good" commandments and controls.
2. People in charge of commandments and controls.
3. Preoccupations with conformity and appearances.
4. Judgements and condemnations for non-conformity.
5. Communal agreements about what is proper action.
6. Communal agreements about improper behaviors.
7. People to grant permission for unusual behaviors.
8. Guilt and shame associated with non-conformity.
People of integrity who demonstrate that it is
possible to live with integrity in the absence of one or
more of the above "prerequisites" --- thereby expose the
lack of integrity in the games of mutual self deception
which "claim" that the above are essential to living
"good" lives.
Words in quotations are words which are to be
understood in convoluted ways which take into
consideration the unacknowledged rules of the collusive
games of mutual self deception.
To people who are playing collusive games of mutual
self deception they are to be taken literally and naively.
People who are not playing collusive games of mutual
self deception should understand how and why colluders
take such words literally and naively---but understand
that it is dishonest to take them that way.
A person who is playing collusive games of mutual
self deception will often be offended by and/or threatened
by the presence of a person of integrity---even if the
person of integrity has: issued no threat, has inflicted
no harm, has said nothing which is false, and has not
taken issue with anything said or done by the colluder.
Personal integrity itself is a threat to many colluders.
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