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     God  is  Love  and  leads  us  towards   integration,
wholeness, unity, cooperation, and mutual understanding.

     Fear is evil  and  leads us  towards dis-integration,
fragmentation, conflict, coercion and misunderstanding.

     Love  often  leads  us  to  respond   to  potentially
destructive and disintegrative thoughts,  desires, images,
attitudes and intentions---in ways which help to transform
them into constructive and integrative thoughts,  desires,
images,   attitudes  and intentions.   Love then builds up
those  whose thoughts,  desires,  images,   attitudes  and
intentions have been transformed---helping them to be true
to  self and others in integrative ways.    Love does  not
pass judgement upon  them  within their former destructive
and disintegrative ways.   Love liberates them from  their
former ways and  sets  them free to engage in constructive
and integrative ways.

     Fear  often  leads  us  to  respond  to   potentially
constructive  and integrative thoughts,  desires,  images,
attitudes and intentions---in ways which help to transform
them   into   destructive  and  disintegrative   thoughts,
desires,   images,  attitudes and intentions.   Fear  then
tears down those people whose thoughts,  desires,  images,
attitudes and intentions have been unworthy of  respect---
leading them to be more fearful,  defensive,  insecure and
so more deceptive,  misleading,  confused,  prejudiced and
outright  dishonest  in disintegrative ways.   Fear  leads
people to pass judgement  upon  others  in terms of former
destructive and disintegrative ways.  Fear enslaves people
within their  former ways,  and  leads  them  into  deeper
prisons of collusive games of  mutual  self-deception  and
codependence  upon  those  people who  are  imprisoned  in
addictive ways.

     Love   accentuates  the  cycle  of  liberation   from
alienation, estrangement,  judgementalism,  condemnations,
excommunications  and  banishments---through   sympathetic
forgiveness and acceptance into open and honest dialogue.

     Fear   accentuates   the  cycle  of  enslavement   in
alienation,  estrangement, judgementalism,  condemnations,
excommunications  and banishments---through  unsympathetic
rejections and exclusions from open and honest dialogue.

     Love   accentuates  unique  people  being   true   to
themselves  and  each other in open  and  honest  dialogue
which brings about integration.

     Fear  accentuates different people being  preoccupied
with  conformity  to  expectations---within  relationships
where  respected  appearances  are  more  important   than
honesty, dialogue or integrity.

     Love    liberates    people   from    controls    and
preoccupations with issues of control.

     Fear  enslaves people within patterns of controls and
preoccupations with issues of control.

     Each  day we choose between being liberated  by  Love
and being dominated by Fear.

                                                                                                                               
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