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%COMPULSIVE PREOCCUPATION ADDICTIVE IDOLATRY SIN+970228
%JOYFUL INTEGRATIVE SEXUAL RELATIONS OPEN HONEST+970228
%LOSS CONTROL HEALTH COLLUSIVE GAMES SELF DECEPTION+970228
%APPARENT DECEPTIVE PERSON COMMUNAL COHERENCE LOVE+970228
%BEWARE EVIL KNOWLEDGE GOOD LOVE GOD'S FORGIVENESS 970228
People who are compulsively preoccupied with issues
of control cannot engage in joyful integrative sexual
relationships which are open and honest about the loss of
control which occurs within them.
Within healthy/integrative sexual relationships there
is an honest acknowledgement of the enjoyment of the loss
of control in the fulfillment of healthy and pleasurable
possibilities of human sexuality. People who are
compulsively preoccupied with issues of control cannot be
honest about losing control---for losing control is taboo,
and so the pleasures which are entailed in sexual loss of
control are taboo.
People who are compulsively preoccupied with issues
of control are playing collusive games of mutual self-
deception. They cannot knowingly allow themselves or
others to enjoy sexual pleasure---because doing so will
threaten the apparent integrity of their collusive games
of mutual self-deception. Such sexual pleasure is usually
associated with some form of losing control which is so
ultimately important to many compulsive people.
Compulsive preoccupation with issues of control is
idolatrous when it is intimately associated with the
generation of alienation through the playing of collusive
games of mutual self-deception. Alienative relationships
are evil relationships. It is relationships which are
evil. People who are playing collusive games of mutual
self-deception are trapped in evil relationships. They
cannot transcend their evil relationships through sexual
love; because healthy sexual love entails giving up
compulsive preoccupations with issues of control.
Beware of people, ideals and values which are
compulsively focused upon issues of control---for they are
disintegrative/alienative in their preoccupations and
relationships.
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