This-essay is a9701111.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %RELATIONSHIPS OBJECTIONABLE RESPECTABLE POWER SIN+970111 %ESCAPE CONTROL OWNERSHIP IMBALANCE MUTUAL PRIVATE 970111 Often crimes, immoral acts, and unethical acts, are defined in terms of what an individual is forbidden to do: murder, robbery, assault, rape, deception, etc. Such crimes are a threat to personal and communal integrity, and usually entail disintegrative behavior by an individual. What of behaviors which entail two or more people engaged in mutually agreeable behaviors? When is such behavior criminal, immoral, unethical? If two or more people cooperate in murder, robbery, assault, rape, deception or illegal business practices---clearly their behavior is criminal, immoral and/or unethical. When two or more individuals cooperate together as one --- what is criminal, immoral, and/or unethical for one to do? It is natural to regard their collective behavior as criminal, immoral and/or unethical. In law there are instances where it is criminal for two or more people to cooperate in doing what is perfectly legal for one person to do; e.g., set prices in "price fixing" which undermines healthy competition. Collectively cooperating in being deceptive may also be treated far more severely that individual behavior which is deceptive, but hard to show to be intentionally deceptive. In addition to the above kinds of situations, there are situations in which people are embarrassed by, and/or object to, cooperative behavior on the part of two or more equally powerful people. What if no person has been harmed, deceived or truly threatened? What if the behavior has been truly private and is only suspected by others? What if no one that is involved in the behavior has objected to being involved in the behavior? What right do "outsiders" or "bystanders" have to object? Sometimes people object because: 1. They are emotionally immature and are embarrassed by what they suspect others have done or are doing. 2. Their own collusive, addictive, and/or codependent behavior is exposed by what others have done, said, or are doing or saying. 3. They have been trying to own/control others' behavior, and others have broken free of illegitimate attempts to be in control of them. 4. What people do/say threatens a dominant paradigm which is incomplete, but pretends to be comprehensive. Some of the more "difficult-to-assess" situations entail "private" relationships between/among people who differ significantly in power and influence --- due to differences in age, maturity, intelligence, education, race, sexuality, religion, nationality, tribe, family reputation, etc. The less powerful participants may not recognize that they are being taken advantage of ---and/or may not have any effective means to protest being taken advantage of. The more powerful participants may not recognize that they are more powerful, dominating, or taking advantage of another person or persons. It is difficult in such situations to draw clear boundaries through the use of systematic procedures or formulas. It takes more than technical procedures to deal helpfully with such situations. Often, dominant people try to enforce laws that they want to exist---but actually do not exist. They do not function in terms of legislation, which has been passed by duly constituted legislatures --- and in terms of judicial courts, have been duly constituted. They often pretend that the consensus which they and their "like-minded" friends have generated is adequate grounds for being coercive towards those other people who do not agree with them in expression and behavior. Thus they rarely quote any section of any published law. They take for granted that people assume that what they say is illegal, immoral or unethical --- is covered under written legislation. They do not work to promote personal and communal integrity through honest procedures. See the next essay. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================Lines beginning with a percent sign are KEYWORDS for use in ESSAY-System Searches. Their terminal digits are dates of writing in the format @yymmdd#, where @ = a means 99, @ = b means 20, and # = is a within-date essay-count. Links to date-adjacent essays are near page top & bottom.
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