This is http://www.essayz.com/a9404153.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %WISE DECISION ROLE MODEL RESPECT ADMIRE HONOR+940415 %IDEAL VALUE GOAL PURPOSE TECHNIQUE COMPETENCE 940415 In what way may we wisely decide what people to most respect, admire, honor and support as our most worthy role models? Upon what shall we focus? 1. Their declared ideals, values, goals, purposes? 2. Their previous accomplishments and their formal demonstrations of technical competence? 3. The level of understanding which they have of theories of cause and effect relationships? 4. How well they have fulfilled our own and other people's expectations of them? 5. How reliable they are in doing what they say they will do? 6. How reliable they are in accomplishing what they say that they will accomplish? 7. How effectively they fulfill the spirit and letter of relevant rules, regulations, requirements, and policies. 8. How well they bring about the effects which they intend to bring about in their relationships with others. 9. How open and honest they are in relating to other persons? 10. How consistently they treat others as expressions of one cosmic being? 11. The depth of their spiritual life and web of inter-relationships? 12. How freely they enter into personal relationships and let others be themselves within personal relationships? 13. Their level of personal integrity and contributions to communal integrity? 14. Other considerations? The kind of life we live and how our lives affect us and others depends profoundly upon how we respond (consciously or unconsciously) to the above kinds of questions. Often we give such questions little consideration, and talk about them even less. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================