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  %DENY REALITY EXPERIENCE AFFECTIVE COPE WISE FAIL 910605

     If  we do not know how to cope with  our  experiences
and  find  our experiences to be occasions for alienation,
rejection,   excommunication  and the like;   then we  are
likely  to deny the  reality of our experiences,   and  to
pretend they they are  not real,   did not happen,   could
not have  happened, etc.

     If  we do not know how to cope with our  experiences,
we  may  fall   into  patterns of  dishonest  behavior  in
regards  to those  experiences which we know as leading to
alienation,   rejection,   excommunication and  the  like.
Thus,    affective immaturity  in  a conformal context  is
likely  to  lead  us into  the augmentation  of  collusive
games of  mutual  self deception.

     It   is   dangerous  to ignore  affective  immaturity
and   to  regard  it  as  a condition of no   consequence;
for   the  consequences   of   affective   immaturity  are
likely   to  be personal  and   communal   disintegration.
Any   ideals   and values   which  contribute  to   people
growing   up    with  affective   immaturity   should  not
receive our  unqualified respect;  e.g.,  we need to avoid
granting  respect to values which  in   unqualified   ways
affirm  the  importance   of objectivity.

                                                                                                                               
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