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     People  who  work  with hidden motives  promote  sin,
alienation.    Their hidden agendas promote suspicion  and
mistrust.    Their  actions and words can not be taken  at
face  value.    Attempts are made at  inferring  what  the
hidden  motives are.   But the person with hidden  motives
seeks to frustrate or manipulate the efforts  to infer the
hidden  motives.   Such considerations lead to  misleading
communications  the  offering of ostensible  slips---which
will   be  taken  to  reveal  hidden  motives  through  an
unsuspecting  analysis.   Thus,  the analyst must infer at
what  level of duplicity the  other person is operating---
and seek evidence of what that level of duplicity is.   Of
course  such  seeking  occasions  the generation of  false
evidence regarding the level  of  duplicity.   Once people
have   accepted  relationships  based upon hidden motives,
there is no end to the divergent  series  of deception and
counter-deception,   analysis and counter  analysis.    To
accept  and respect such hidden motive relationships is to
doom  yourself to alienation and the transgressions  which
alienation promotes.

     It would appear then that motives should be open.  To
be open about your motives is, however,  to be vulnerable.
Yet  that  vulnerability  quite often disarms  others  who
might   seek  to  manipulate  persons  operating  in   the
manipulative mode.  It is difficult to manipulate a person
who  is  not in the manipulative mode,  and thus,   it  is
difficult  to manipulate persons with open motives.   Even
so,   persons  with open motives are  often  crucified  by
insensitive manipulative persons.  Such crucifixion is one
of  the risks taken by those who trust others  to  respect
their dedication to openness.

                                                                                                                               
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