This-essay is a7610241.htm which is available at the web-site www.essayz.com. See more notes at the bottom. Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay By-Months By-Years By-Words Webs of Like-&-Un-Like ESSAYS <==> Like-&-UN-Like This-One ========================================================== %SURRENDER TO RELATIONSHIP 761024 Sexual interc ourse is the prototype for humane surrender to a relationship. In it, participants give up their individualistic plans, goals, and manipulative approaches; else fulfillment is not complete. Sexual relationships which are systematic according to individualistic plans and goals do not involve complete interc ourse, dialogue. There are too often hidden agenda items. Participants in real sexual interc ourse do not so much create the relationships, as the relationship creates them. The relationship passes judgment upon their plans, goals, and manipulative approaches to each other. For this reason persons who are technically oriented fear sexual interc ourse---with logical reasons. Sexual interc ourse is not logical. No postulates or logical presuppositions and theorems lead in a systematic way to valuing sexual interc ourse. Thus those who value logic and systematic approaches are baffled by and/or fear what sexual interc ourse might do to them. Surrender to such a relationship might lead to a rebirth into a new being which they presently do not value. Surrender to such a relationship might lead to the shaking of the foundations of the secure system which they have created and worship. For this reason they enter into manipulative sexual relationships rather than into genuine sexual interc ourse. They thereby avoid the risk of rebirth which is present in genuine sexual interc ourse. Unconditional surrender to the relationship is a prerequisite to genuine sexual interc ourse. This is very risky, and requires a great deal of trust of the relationship on the part of the participants. In addition, the participants must have a great deal of trust that the other is not approaching the relationship in a manipulative manner with selfish goals in mind, rather than a heartfelt desire to surrender to the relationship and give self to the fulfillment of the relationship. They must have the courage to be together with whatever that may mean. Love is God. God is Love. They are One. What God hath joined together let no man put asunder. Yet, technocrats ultimately fear Love which will judge their worship of techniques, means to ends which end their lives. Thus technocrats use the ultimate technique of idolatry to inhibit love and sexual interc ourse. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in www.essayz.com Search for Integrity and Honesty (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================
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