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                               %PROMOTING EXTREMISM 760915

     Conditional     acceptance    promotes     extremism,
conformity, manipulation, and alienation.  Once conditions
for   personal  acceptance  are  formulated,   there   are
violations of opportunities to  fulfill  unique  God-given
talents. Conformity, rather than fulfillment,  becomes the
goal.   Manipulative  techniques are developed and used to
achieve conformity to the accepted standards,  even though
that  goal undermines the acceptance of unique persons  as
being worthy of consideration and respect.   Those seeking
conditional  acceptance must seek to excel in meeting  the
conditions, to assure themselves of secure acceptance, and
so   of  security.    This  drive  for  excellence  in   a
competition  to be the most acceptable (and so  among  the
few who can he fully accepted) is what promotes extremism.
Different persons'  conditions for acceptability may be in
conflict with each other, and so persons seeking to become
acceptable by  excellence in meeting those conditions find
themselves in conflict with each other,  as  part of their
effort   to   fulfill  the  internalized   conditions   of
acceptability.   Those seeking conditional  acceptance are
prone  to  do violence  to  those  who  accept  and  grant
unconditional  acceptance  in  the spirit  of  Love.   The
former are  prone  to become increasingly technocratically
oriented,   as the latter move towards personal  integrity
within intimate relations.   The former are prone to build
walls  against intimate relations which they fear  due  to
the unknown potential within them. They prefer to know and
understand, rather than to be known and understood.   Thus
they  choose objectivity  and analysis,  in preference  to
subjectivity and integrity.

                                                                                                                               
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