If we are unwilling-to-describe-honestly where we are in UN-healthy relationships --- compared to where we wish to move to in-healthy-relationships --- there is no-hope of making-the-transition.
We cannot prepare to make wise, prudent, evolutionary transitions from-alienative-relationships --- into more healthy- relationships --- if we cannot recognize, describe, and contrast what are the essences of the contrasts between the different kinds of relationships.
The essays here offer some descriptions of the essential-foundations for healthy-relationships --- which we may reach by transitions through personal and communal integrations-and-integrities --- well founded upon an evolving understanding of appropriate essential-foundations for such relationships --- and transitions-into-them from where-we-are at-the-present-time.
It is not yet-clear-that now-is-the-time to try to describe the processes-of-making-the-needed-transitions --- because many of the essential-foundations have not-yet been-agreed-upon.
In the absence of adequate-agreements about essential-foundations --- many attempts to describe "proper" transitions are likely to be viewed by many people as attempts-to-dominate-them in unwelcomed ways.