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Domineering people are preoccupied with issues of control; with concentrating power so that they can be in control.
Domineering people feel insecure and vulnerable when none of them are in control. They cannot trust Love or true lovers; because true lovers; are not preoccupied with issues of control and are very strange, cannot be understood.
Evil relationships are the fruits of domineering people's efforts to be unilaterally in control; because such efforts are naturally alienative. True lovers are not welcome, because true lovers will spoil domineering people's collusive games of mutual self deception; will unmask dishonesty.
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820 CONTROL 200 SIN 172 DOMINAT
168 EVIL 151 LOVE 148 SELF
133 SYSTEM 114 ADDICT 112 GOD
110 POWER 106 PERSONAL 102 GOOD
92 INTEGRITY 88 CONFLICT 81 VIOLENCE
80 RELATIONSHIPS 70 COMMUNAL 67 LAW
67 DEVIL 65 ALIENATION 64 SALVATION
63 HONEST 62 CONTROLS 61 PEOPLE
61 INTIMACY 59 COERCION 58 EXCLUSIVE
57 SEX 57 OTHER 56 SINS
54 LAWS 53 ISSUES 51 INTIMATE
51 DISCIPLINE 50 SECURITY 50 LOVERS
50 DEVILS 49 SEXUAL 49 ADDICTIVE
48 RESPECT 48 RELIGIOUS 48 REFLEXIVE
48 ADDICTION 47 MANIPULATE 47 DIALOGUE
47 COLLUSION 46 UNDERSTAND 45 VULNERABLE
45 FEAR 45 ARROGANCE 44 PREOCCUPATION
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Each word tabulated above follows the number of times the
word appeared PAIRED-WITH the character string CONTROL
within TITLES of essays of the ESSAYZ System in July of
2003. Such words point to considerations which are comp-
lementary to CONTROL in healthy lives.
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