This is http://www.essayz.com/b0806210.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %ESSENTIAL REGULATION INTIMACIES OPEN HONEST PRAYER 080621 %DIALOGUE EXPLORATION COMMUNICATIONS DESCRIPTIONS 080621 %PRESCRIPTIONS PROSCRIPTIONS EXCLUSIVE TABOOS BEST 080621 %BULLIES CONTROL CREATIVE REVELATIONS VISIONS LOVER 080621 %ABSOLUTE TRUTH EXCLUSIVITY RANK ORDERED HIERARCHY 080621 %OLD BOY NETWORK PREFERENTIAL HIRE BEST MEN CONTROL 080621 %MORE THAN ENOUGH SLAVES PLANTATIONS COLONIES KINGS 080621 Domineering-Bullies seek to CONCENTRATE Into-Their-Own- Hands --- and Into-The-Hands Of-Few-Others Most-Like-Them; the following (along with Symbolic-Tokens-Thereof): 1. Power, 2. Wealth, 3. Influence, 4. Honor, 5. Rewards, 6. Prestige, 7. Privileges, 8. Tools-of-Control, 9. Defenses/Security, 10. Unilateral-Tools-of-Domination, 11. Special-Rights Reserved-for-Superior-People, 12. Eternal-Life-and-Health. In seeking the above CONCENTRATIONS; Domineering-Bullies engage in Alienative-Behaviors that undermine both personal and communal integrations-and-integrities. Both personal and communal health are thereby undermined. True-Lovers, in contrast, seek to Mitigate all kinds of Alienative-Behaviors and seek to Mitigate all kinds of Alienation. The challenge is to Mitigate all kinds of Alienation --- without engaging in the following kinds of Alienative-Behaviors that involve UNILATERAL: 1. Violence, 2. Controls, 3. Initiatives, 4. Attacks, 5. Exclusions, 6. Rejections, 7. Denigrations, 8. Punishments, 9. Shunnings, 10. Excommunications. Domineering-Bullies seek to protect themselves against revelations of the Net-Communal-Costs of their Alienative- Behaviors. Those revelations are most likely to be the fruits of True-Lovers Speaking-Truth-to-Concentrated-Power that has been CONCEALED in Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self- Deception; that are played for the benefit of Domineering- Bullies. The Powers-that-Be create: rules, laws, demands, commands, commandments, contracts, etc. --- to punish True Lovers who cooperate/collaborate in Open-and-Honest Dialogues-and-Intimacies that Reveal the Net-Costs to the Whole-Community-of-Space-Ship-Earth --- of the Alienative- Behaviors of Domineering-Bullies. To this end, Intimacies and Open-and-Honest-Dialogues must be regulated by the right Domineering-Bullies who are pretending to be the most honorable members of the crew of Space-Ship-Earth. The prayers and meditations of small groups of True-Lovers must be regulated! Be aware and beware --- in order to empower each other to Mitigate-Alienative-Behaviors --- without engaging in Alienative-Behaviors. Small-Vulnerable-Groups of True-Lovers cannot defeat Large-Groups of Alienative-Domineering-Bullies --- by copying the: attitudes, assumptions, beliefs, convictions and life-styles and destructive-tools of the large groups of Alienative-Domineering-Bullies. Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================