This is http://www.essayz.com/b0806220.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== Click on WELCOME for a quick tour of essayz.com ========================================================== %ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS MEANINGFUL CONFLICT MITIGATION 080622 %UNDERSTANDING HOW WHY OTHER PEOPLE PERSPECTIVE ACT 080622 The following play essential roles in Meaningful-Conflict- MITIGATION: 1. Learning-About and Understanding how other people's Different-Perspectives --- Lead-Them and Motivate-Them to behave in Different-Ways. 2. Learning How-and-Why the Perspectives of Domineering- Bullies --- Lead-Them and Motivate-Them to engage in Alienative-Behaviors. 3. Learning How-and-Why the Perspectives of True-Lovers --- Lead-Them and Motivate-Them to Be-Together in the Gracious-Reconciling-ways-of-Shalom. 4. Learning How-and-Why Gracious Articulations-of and Demonstrations-of the following VIRTUES --- play essential roles in Meaningful-Conflict MITIGATIONs --- in ways which are Feared-and-Opposed by Domineering-Bullies --- because the VIRTUES play essential roles in MITIGATING Contentious-Conflicts. The relevant VIRTUES include: Honesty Openness Generosity Sharing Hospitality Tolerance Distributive-Justice Collaboration Cooperation Team-Work Patience Faith Trust Hope Love Learning Descriptions Clarity Authenticity Exploring Reconsidering Researching Tolerance 5, Learning How-and-Why Alienative-Articulations-of-and- Demonstrations of the following VICES; as-if-they-were- VIRTUES; play tragic roles in AUGMENTATIONS of Conflicts. 6. Learning How-and-Why small groups of two, three, four and five people have different dynamics, advantages, and dis-advantages --- which depend upon the mix of different perspectives and personalities of the persons involved. 7. Learning How-and-Why Contentious Articulations-of and Demonstrations-of the following VICES-as-virtues --- play Tragic-Roles in Domineering-Bullies-Lives. The Relevant VICES include: Dis-Honesty Secrecy Greed Hoarding Exclusivity Intolerance Distributive-In-Justice Denigrations Threats Terrorism Unilateralism Suspicion Dis-Trust Despair Indifference Forgetting Demands Confusion Self-Interest Provincialism Arrogance Absolutism Crusading Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom. (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in "Search for Honesty and Integrity" (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================