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 %DOMINEERING BULLIES FUTILE TRAGIC INITIATIVES GOD 080326
   %CONTROL TERMS CONTESTS DEFEAT DENIGRATE DEPRIVE 080326
   %ASSUMPTIONS ATTITUDES ENDLESS CONFLICT VIOLENCE 080326
%INEVITABLE RECYCLING COERCION COLLUSIVE GAMES EVIL 080326
%MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION DEFEATING INNOCENT OTHERS ID 080326

Domineering-Bullies try to begin by taking control of  the
terms  of  their  contests with those whom  they  seek  to
defeat,  denigrate,  deprive-of-wealth,  deprive-of-power,
etc.

True-Lovers   when   confronted   by   Domineering-Bullies
TRANSCEND-THE-CONTESTS  which the Domineering-Bullies  try
to create.

True-Lovers do NOT-ACCEPT Domineering-Bullies' ASSUMPTIONS
THAT:

 1.  It is inevitable that there will be endless  contests
where  a  few will win at expense of many others  who  are
defeated or injured as innocent by-standers.

 2.  That Domineering-Leaders merit more respect,   honor,
and  support  than  do True-Lovers who  seek  to  Augment:
Cooperation,      Collaboration,    Honesty,     Dialogue,
Hospitality and intimately related virtues within coherent
clusters of such virtues.

 3.  True-Lovers are weak and unable to lead in ways which
truly merit: honor, respect, support and emulation.

True-Lovers  DO-UNDERSTAND  the ways  in  which  Coherent-
Clusters-of-Virtues  Work-Cooperatively to Render-Impotent
the  Incoherent-Fantasies-of-Domineering-Bullies  who  are
Playing-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception      that
NOBODY-CAN-WIN.

True-Lovers  have  not internalized  imposed:   standards,
beliefs,  doctrines,  rituals,  or patterns of conformity.

True-Lovers'  knowledge is coherent with their experiences
and  their  own personal perspectives  of  how  Authentic-
Human-Relationships DO-WORK ---  and  how  Domineering-In-
Humane-Relationships FALL-APART.

     Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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