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%ULTIMATE CONFLICTS CONCERNS CONFLICTS DOMINEERING 080602
%BULLIES TABOO PAIRS ACROSS MANDATORY DIVISION LINE 080602
%RACES RELIGIONS TRIBES NATIONS ECONOMIC STATUS SEX 080602
%SEXUAL LIFE STYLES MARRIAGES PUBLIC OPEN HONEST 080602
%LARGE SMALL ISOLATED GROUPS MIXTURES DIVISIONS GOD 080602
%COLLUSIVE GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION DEFEAT OTHER 080602
%WIN LOSER DEFEAT WINNERS UNILATERAL SECURITY SAFE 080602
The following numbered realities are each TABOO to Loyal-
Supporters of The-Domination-Systems of Domineering
Bullies:
1. Secret "Open-and-Honest-Dialogue" of Isolated-Couples
in Taboo-Pairings Across-Mandatory-Division-Lines BETWEEN:
(a) Races, (b) Religions, (c) Tribes, (d) Nations, (e)
Economic-Status, etc.
2. "Public" Open-and-Honest-Dialogue within Small-
Isolated-Groups --- Ignoring Taboos About-Mixtures of
people who are Violating-Mandatory-Division-Lines -- noted
just above.
3. Increasing the sizes of the Small-Isolated-Groups
noted above --- for doing so always increases the dangers
inherent in such Taboo-Activities --- which are Taboo
because the traitors' activities will undermine the
following Alienative-Essentials of Our-Domination-Systems:
a. Winning-All of Our Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-
Deception.
b. Defeating All-Other Domineering-Bullies.
c. Exposing the Weaknesses of All True-Lovers.
d. Exposing the vulnerabilities of All traitors to
our cause.
e. The unilateral achievement of security via
invulnerability.
f. The total avoidance of all of the hazards of all
intimacies.
g. The celebration of GOOD sacred techniques and
technocrats.
We need to be clear that the Ultimate-Concerns of
Domineering-Bullies are in conflict with the Ultimate-
Concerns of True-Lovers --- and that there are no ways in
which those conflicts can be reconciled with each other;
for they are Ultimate-Concerns --- and are Truly-Mutually-
Exclusive.
To deal creatively and helpfully with the enduring
conflicts between True-Lovers and Domineering-Bullies ---
we need to understand the nature of those conflicts and the
nature of the ultimate concerns of those people who are
wrapped up in those conflicts. We cannot be helpful if we
ourselves are tangled up in the collusive games of mutual
self deception which circulate around us! Think! Be aware
and beware!
Be-Together in the Many-Gracious Ways of Shalom.
(c) 2008 by Paul A. Smith in
"Search for Honesty and Integrity"
(On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
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