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  %GRACIOUS INTEGRATIONS OWN MOST CREATIVE INSIGHTS 071004
%VISIONS DREAMS HOPES ASPIRATIONS PLEASURES DESIRES 071004
  %WIDE EXPANDING HONEST COMMUNITY ESSENTIAL ASPECT 071004
%FOUNDATION FOR PERSONAL COMMUNAL INTEGRATIONS LOVE 071004
%INTEGRITIES GRACIOUS ACCEPT ACCEPTANCE SHAKING ALL 071004
%FALSE FOUNDATIONS DOMINATION SUPERIORITY ARROGANCE 071004

The  Gracious-Integration  of  one's  own  most  creative:
Insights,  Visions, Dreams, Hopes, Aspirations, Pleasures,
and Desires ---  into the Wider-Expanding-Honest-Community
---     is   ESSENTIAL   to   both   Personal-and-Communal
Integrations-and-Integrities.

     The above ESSENTIAL entails:

 1.  Gracious-Acceptances by others,

 2.  Gracious-Acceptances by Self-with-Others,

 3.  Integrative-Acceptances All-Around.

     In   the   Light-of-Acceptances;     Dialogue/Healing
becomes    possible.      In   the   tragic   Darkness-of-
Denials/Rejections --Dialogue/Healing are  NOT possible.

     There  can be no Personal-Integrity so long as one is
in perpetually  in Compulsive-Internal-Conflict  over what
Essential-Aspects-of-Self   can  be  Graciously-Integrated
into  the formation of Communal-Integrities;    and so ---
so long as one  is  perpetually in External-Conflicts over
what Aspects-of-Self are Truly-Essential;  rather than are
really:

 1.  Imposed from Outside-of-Self by Ignorant-Others.

 2.  Defenses against outside Alienative-Impositions.

 3.  Efforts to Heal-the-Injuries of Such-Impositions.

 4.  Efforts to achieve any form of Domination/Control.

 5.  Aversions to Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-Deception

 6.  Aversions to Domination/Control/Violence/Alienation.

 7.  Aspects of a Disintegrative-Culture of any kind.

 8.  Aspects of any Healthy-Response to any of the above.

 9.  Aspects of True-Lovers'-Responses to any of the above.

10.  True-Lovers Systems'-Analysis of all of the above.

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It is DIS-INTEGRATIVE to  inhibit  ---  or Be-Complicit in
inhibiting   -----  the Gracious-and-True Exploration-and-
Communication  of what True-Lovers-Learn  in  Truly-Being-
Together in the  Many-Gracious-Ways-of-Shalom;  i.e.,   in
NON-VIOLENT  resistance movements -------   which  Truly-
Mitigate-Domination.

It   is  INTEGRATIVE  to  persist  in   Constantly-Making-
Gracious-  Affirmations while avoiding Direct-or-Complicit
involvement in:  Negations,  Denigrations,  an/or Threats-
Against True-Lovers who excel in being True-to-Themselves
And-Each-Other who is so INTEGRATIVE.

Only  when we are honest with each other about the natures
of  ---  the Prevailing-and-Dominant aspects of our  Self-
And-Other ---  can we: Reconcile, Heal,  Resolve-Conflicts
and:

    Truly Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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