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%EVERY DAY ROUTINE EVENTS RELATIONSHIPS TRUE LOVERS 071004

The  following pertain to rather every-day routine-events;
as well as to more exciting and obviously Life-threatening
events as surrounding:

 1.  True-Lovers  clearly share their pleasures  with each
other   in  their  Cooperative-Intimate-Activities   which
always  entail  the  Risks-of-Intimacy within  communities
which  are dominated  by  various  manifestations  of  The
Domination-System   which  cannot  Safely-Tolerate   True-
Lovers' Healthy-Intimacies and Open-and-Honest-Dialogues.

 2.  Being  Graciously-Together-within-Shalom's  Many-Ways
is preventive  medicine  which  wards  off  the  risks  of
Domineering-People    preparing    for     confrontations,
conflicts, contentiousness, condemnations, in anticipation
of Unilateral-Initiative  in Alienative-Wars ---  with all
of their long-term Dis-Integrative Consequences ---  which
cannot be easily mitigated by anybody.

 3.  Kids learning to settle disputes in the sand box  and
on the playground ---  with understandings of how coercion
and violence lead to alienation and its augmentations.

 4.  Kids learning  how  to Resist-Alienative-Behaviors in
ways   which   do  NOT   entail:    Violence,    Coercion,
Condemnation,     Judgementalism,     Winning-and-Loosing,
Victories-and-Defeats,    Keeping-Score,    Formations-of-
Hierarchies,   Maintaining-of-Hierarchies,    Exclusivity,
Excommunications, Rejections, etc.

 5.  Families learning  how to function graciously in  the
absence of any Ordering-of-Life by any Dominant-Authority-
Figure of any kind.

 6.  Families learning how to deal  graciously, openly and
honestly   with  Human-Imperfections  and  Human-Mortality
within  secular  and  religious  contexts  of  contrasting
kinds.

 7.  School,  college and university students learning how
to  integrate  the  contrasting  perspectives  of  poetry,
parables,  metaphors,  allegories,  story-telling,  novels,
ballet,   songs,   symphonies,   religious-doctrines,  and
scientific-research-findings-and-conclusions.

In the  mere absence of the above kinds of activities  ---
human civilizations tend to run down hill towards patterns
of  domination at all levels of "civil"  interactions  ---
and all past human civilizations have "FALLEN";  sometimes
leaving scant evidence that they ever existed.

      Be-Together in the Many-Gracious ways of Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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