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%MAINTAIN COMMUNAL HEALTH INTEGRITY VIRTUES DESIRES 070727

On  of  the  major  differences  between  True-Lovers  and
Domineering-People   is  how  they  approach  each   other
person's Healthy-Humane-DESIRES:

 1.  Domineering-People view  Healthy-Humane-Human-DESIRES
primarily  as Objects-to-be-Manipulated; i.e.  as a Means-
to-Control-and-Domination by Themselves-Alone.

 2.  True-Lovers     view     Healthy-Humane-Human-DESIRES
primarily   as   Aspects-of-Healthy-Humane-Whole   Humane-
Beings-with-Integrity  and  as  Aspects-of-Healthy-Humane-
Whole Humane-Communities.

Of  course  the above distinction depends  upon  how  each
person distinguishes  between  Healthy-Humane-DESIRES  and
Un-Healthy-Humane-DESIRES.      In   these   essays   that
distinction is made in terms  of  whether  or not people's
DESIRES demonstrate Many-or-Few of the following Virtues:

Honesty       Civility      Generosity       Hospitality

Authenticity  Balance       Coherence        Integrity

Reliability   Courtesy      Politeness       Genuineness

Equilibrium   Stability     Consistency      Truthfulness

Congruity     Robustness    Reasonableness   Endurance

Creativity    Affirmations  Understanding    Empathy

Sympathy      Sensitivity   Imagination      Perspective

In  the  absence of the above virtues people  cannot  work
well  together  and  cannot cooperate  in  maintaining any
Healthy-Humane-Community.    Healthy-Humane-People DESIRE-
to-Maintain  Healthy-Humane-Communities.      Domineering-
People are indifferent about  the above virtues as aspects
of  their communities and  so do not view human-DESIRES in
terms  of  whether  or  not they contribute coherently  to
maintaining the Health-of-their-Communities.

    Many observations like those made above  about DESIRES
may  likewise  be made about  similar  reflexive-realities
which Domineering-People often seek to manipulate;   e.g.;
potential-victims': HOPES, EXPECTATIONS, FEARS, ANXIETIES,
ASSUMPTIONS, and ATTITUDES.  For each of these --- in  the
absence  of the above tabulated virtues ---  people cannot
work well together and cannot cooperate in maintaining any
Healthy-Humane-Community.    Demonstrating each virtue  in
reliable  ways ---  is  an  important  way to MITIGATE the
alienations  and disintegrations which flow from all kinds
of DOMINATION.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom.

                         (c) 2007 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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