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     Many  people  do not want to be Left-Out of  what  is
happening  around them.   The fear  Being-Abandoned.  When
those  around them are taking up sides in conflicts,  many
people cannot resist Joining-in-the-Pattern  of Taking-Up-
Sides ---  in whatever the conflict may be;  i.e., to join
in  the  Polarizing-Activities.

     Few  people can resist assuming  that the  Best-That-
Can-Be-Done is to pick the "Good" =  "Right"  side; out of
Just-Two-Options.  Most people reject the possibility that
there  might  be  a  More-Creative-and-Integrative  way of
responding.    To do so would be to violate he Tacit-Rules
of     the      Prevailing-Collusive-Games-of-Mutual-Self-
Deception!

     Violence-can-be-Mitigated only by  Letting-Go-of-The-
Myth-of-Redemptive-Violence; not by Augmenting-The-Use-of-
Violence; or by Augmenting-The-Use-of:

     1.  Coercion,
     2.  Fear,
     3.  Terror,
     4.  Terrorists,
     5.  Unilateral-Actions,
     6.  Domination-Systems,
     7.  Objectifications-of-People,
     8.  Excommunications,
     9.  Alienation, and/or
    10.  Dishonesty.

     The  Cycle-of-Violence  cannot be  mitigated  without
describing and acknowledging the motivations of the people
who  are  trapped in the Cycle-of-Violence  which  creates
Evil-Relationships which undermining the possibilities of:

     1.  Cooperation,
     2.  Mutual-Understanding,
     3.  Reconciliation,
     4.  Healings,
     5.  Collaborative-Actions,
     6.  Liberation-Systems,
     7.  Reconciliations-of-People,
     8.  Honest-Dialogue,
     9.  Hospitality, and/or
    10.  True-Friendships-Evolving.

     Be Graciously-Together in the Many-Ways-of-Shalom!

                         (c) 2006 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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