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   %NOT ESSENTIAL NORMAL LIVING GRACIOUSLY TOGETHER 050510
 %FACTS LIFE TRUE LOVERS COMMUNAL INTEGRATION GRACE 050510
%DEMONSTRATE SHALOM HEALTH NEIGHBOR COMMUNE TENSION 050510
%STRIFE TENSION CONTENTION ANXIETY FIGHT ATTACK SIN 050510
 %VIOLENCE COERCION EXCLUDE TERROR REJECT EXCOMMUNE 050510
%SUPERIOR WAR DISEASE ADDICT CODEPEND DEFEAT ARROGA 050510

     Among   the  many  essential  foundations  for   both
personal and communal integrations and integrities --- are
the processes of becoming aware of and  helping  others to
become  aware  of the following facts  of  truly  gracious
living:

     1.  NONE  of the following are essential-or-normal in
living-graciously-together in-demonstrating  the-shalom of
healthy-neighborhoods within  well-integrated-communities:

         strife, tension, contention, anxiety, fighting,
         attacks, violence, coercion, exclusion, terror,
         rejections, excommunications, superiority, war,
         disease, addictions, codependencies, defeating,
         self-righteousness, arrogance, narcissism, sin,
         alienation, dysfunctional-relationships, evils,
         denigration, torture, secrecy, pretentiousness,
         domination, hierarchies, prejudices, genocides.

     2.  ALL of the following are essential-and-normal in
living-graciously-together in-demonstrating the-shalom of
healthy-heighborhoods within well-integrated-communities:

         many-complementary-truths, conflict-resolutions,
         relaxation, cooperations, collaborations, lovers,
         telling-truths-to-power, power-sharing, justice,
         distributive-justice, generosity, hospitalities,
         welcomes, inclusions, acceptance, thanksgivings,
         appreciations, responsiveness, inclusivity, sex,
         intimacies, friendships, births, deaths, growth,
         evolution, adaptation, fellowship, integrations,
         honesty, openness, safety-in-vulnerability, etc.

     3.  Ignorance, confusion, doubt, misrepresentations,
         collusions, pretentiousness, prejudices, biases,
         obscurations, secrecy,  neglects, indifferences,
         etc. relating to the above facts-of-lives always
         lead toward tragic outcomes which  can  often be
         avoided through helpful mitigation procedures of
         lovers.
                                    Shalom!

                         (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                      "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                    (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)

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