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%FEELING RATIONALIZE SHOW REVERENCE VULNERABLE LOVE 050224
  %INVULNERABLE TRAGIC RATIONALIZE ABUNDANCE SCARCE 050224
 %HONESTY SELF DECEPTION UNILATERAL MUTUAL BALANCED 050224
%CONCEAL REPRESS SUPPRESS COERCION VIOLENCE ABSENCE 050224
 %AUTHENTIC OPEN REVELATION HEAL INTEGRATION TRUTHS 050224
%GRACIOUS SANCTUARY SAFE INTIMACY SEXUAL FRIENDSHIP 050224
      
           Feeling-reverence,    rationalizing-reverence,    and
      showing-reverence ---
      
           towards   IN-VULNERABILITY    and   that/those    who
      pretentiously "show" IN-VULNERABILITY ---
      
           leads  tragically  toward both  personal-and-communal
      disintegration --- because
      
           within   such   "feeling",   "rationalization"    and
      "showing" ---
      
           there   is  an  ABUNDANCE  of:   dis-honesty,   self-
      deception,  unilateral-deception,   mutual-self-deception,
      secrecy,  concealment, repression, suppression,  coercion,
      violence,   and dis-integration ---  and so also a TRAGIC-
      ABSENCE of:
      
           honesty,  authenticity, openness, revelation,  grace,
      liberation, confession, forgiveness, gentleness,  healing,
      and integration.
      
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           Security is NOT associated with or achieved through
                             IN-VULNERABILITY.
      
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           True-Security   IS  associated-with,   even  if   NOT
      achieved-through, Gracious-Mutual-Vulnerability.
      
           True-Integrity  and True-Security ARE possible,   BUT
      
           ONLY in  association with those  Authentic-People who
      show True-Reverence towards  Gracious-Mutual-Vulnerability
      
           demonstrated   by  Truly-Gracious-People   in   True-
      Sanctuary-Communities where they ---
      
           as Truly-Gracious-People, are Truly-Free ---
      
           to be Safely-Vulnerable Without-Fear With-Each-Other.
      
           Such True-Categories and  True-Concepts are alien-to,
      misunderstood-by and feared-by;
      
           Domineering-People who thoughtlessly support ---
      
           The Disjointed  Domination  System  which  tragically
      lacks coherence and integrity;
      
           as it promotes incoherence and dis-integrations ---
      
           in efforts to get/have power, glory and control of;
      
           all that they covet and try to control ---
      
           in violent ways which violate the integrity of;
      
           whatever they covet and try to control ---
      
           in tragic ways.
      
           True-Lovers  discover  that the more  thoroughly  and
      fully  they  show True-Reverence toward  the  building  of
      True-Sanctuary-Communities    within   which   the   Most-
      Vulnerable   are   Truly-Free  to   be   Safely-and-Fully-
      Vulnerable ---
      
           the  more Truly-Secure they can all  be  Together-In-
      Love.    They discover that the Kingdom-of-Heaven is  then
      Truly-Among-Them,   At-Hand,  in what they do together  in
      ways  which are: cooperative,  collaborative and  coherent
      with    both    personal-and-communal    integrations-and-
      integrities.
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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