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 %BEING TRUE WITHOUT BIAS PREJUDICE ABSOLUTE TRUTHS 050225
 %COMPLEMENTARY TRUE LOVERS EXCLUSIVE INCLUSIVE SIN 050225
 %INTIMATE FRIENDSHIPS RELATIONSHIPS KNOWING DEVILS 050225
  %SCIENTIFIC REFLEXIVE EXPERIMENTATION CONCLUSIONS 050225
    %METHODS PARADIGMS CONVICTIONS CONVICTS PRISONS 050225
 %DOUBLE TRIPLE BINDS BLINDS REPRESS SUPPRESS SEXES 050225
      
           How are we to love that which is transcendent and our
      neighbor --- while being exclusive?
      
           What  are  the  origins  of  our  motivations  to  be
      exclusive: in friendships, intimacies, and love?
      
           Is exclusivity motivated by loving considerations; or
      by   domineering-people's  considerations;   or   by   the
      considerations of True-Lovers?  How can we know for sure?
      
           To be  sure of what we know in-Love, are we to  start
      with the frame-of-mind-and-heart of Domineering-People; or
      with the frame-of-mind-and-heart of True-Lovers?  Why?
      
           How  can  we  Know-for-Sure where we will end  up  in
      Being-Exclusive; as contrasted with Being-Inclusive?
      
           Is  it Ultimately-Important to Know-for-Sure where we
      will  end up and what we will conclude ---  when we begin?
      Can we do so without bias?  How can we be Truly-Sure?
      
           Are the  motivations of  True-Lovers  More-Sound  and
      Without-Bias;   than the motivations of Domineering people
      --- when they Begin-Relationships?
      
           Is  exclusivity  More-Likely  to  be  rooted  in  the
      Beginning:    ways,   attitudes,   assumptions,   beliefs,
      feelings, and thinking  of  Domineering-People;  or in the
      other Beginning:  ways,  attitudes, assumptions,  beliefs,
      feelings, and thinking of True-Lovers?
      
           How  can  we  be sure that our  conclusions  are Not-
      Rooted  in  Our-Own-Beginnings;   rather  than  in  Truly-
      Ultimate-Love?    In Our-Own-Bias;  rather than in  Truly-
      Ultimate-Love?
      
           Is the EPISTOMOLOGY of Domineering-People Truly-More-
      Sound than the EPISTOMOLOGY of True-Lovers in Their-Begin-
      ings?
      
           What are the most Integrative-Beginnings?   Those  of
      Domineering-People;   or those of True-Lovers?  How can we
      be  sure  and know The-Absolute-Truth about our  Most-True
      intimate-relationships?  Who is to most-reliably say? Why?
      
           Is there just One-Way To-Be Truly-Sure?
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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