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 %MAJOR CONTRSTS WAYS PATHS DOMINEERING TRUE LOVERS 050223
   %ACHIEVE SECURITY UNILATERAL POWER CONCENTRATION 050223
%POSSESS WEALTH LUXURIES CONTENTIOUS RELATIONS EVIL 050223
 %ESTRANGE SEPARATE DIVISION DOUBT SUSPICION SECRET 050223
   %COERCE VIOLENT WAR TERROR WEAPON NUCLEAR FAMILY 050223
 %INVULNERABLE FORTRESS SANCTUARY SAFE INTIMACY SEX 050223
      
           There are major contrasts between The-Ways-Of ---
      
           ODD-Domineering-People and EVEN-Handed-True-Lovers.
      
                      Consider The-Contrasting-Ways-of:
      
           1.  Domineering-People  trying  to achieve  security:
      unilaterally,  via-power-concentration-coalitions and  the
      accumulation of possessions,  wealth and luxuries;  ending
      up in contentious  relationships which entail: alienation,
      estrangement,  separations, divisions,  doubts, suspicion,
      secrecy,  pretension, dishonesty,  collusions, addictions,
      codependency, coercion, violence, war, terrorism, weapons-
      of-mass-destruction,      and    NUCLEAR-mutually-assured-
      destruction; with no true-security.
      
           2.  True-Lovers  in  EVEN handed  ways  sharing  what
      they: know,  experience, enjoy and have-with-each-other in
      intimate relationships which entail:  openness,   honesty,
      authenticity,  cooperation,    collaboration,    intimacy,
      sexuality, spirituality, meditation, prayer and reverence;
      within  the framework of graciously and  honorably  shared
      security, safety and mutual vulnerability.
      
           3.  Domineering-People  trying to divide,   fragment,
      alienate  and  conquer  through  coercion,   violence  and
      excommunications.
      
           4.  True-Lovers enjoying each other in  the mutually-
      shared pleasures of: integrations, integrities, coherence,
      reconciliations, inclusion, hospitality, civility, etc. of
      true relationships within Love.
      
           5.  Domineering-People and True-Lovers  demonstrating
      
      
      their   contrasting  ways  which  threaten  each   other's
      Grounds-of-Being-who-they-are.
      
           6.  True-Lovers  fulfilling-each-other in  Being-One-
      in-Love  through:   hospitality,   civility,   generosity,
      dialogue, listening, and sharing trustworthy-intimacies.
      
           7.  Domineering-People   working   to   disintegrate-
      each-other   through  systematic:    exclusions,    pride,
      rejections,  excommunications,   alienations,   arrogance,
      divisions, fragmentations,  power-concentrations,  wealth-
      concentrations,   greed,   unilateral-actions,   etc.   in
      defending  The-Domination-System described by Walter  Wink
      in his powerful book:  The Powers That Be.
      
           8.  True-Lovers  affirming-and-demonstrating  all  of
      the  essential-foundations  of both  personal-and-communal
      integrations  and integrities ---  through Love's Gracious
      Support-and-Revelations.
      
           9.  Truly-Domineering-People  negating,   denigrating
      and undermining all of  the  essential-foundations of both
      personal-and-communal   integrations-and-integrities   ---
      through Evil-Relationships which demonstrate:  alienation,
      estrangement,    misunderstandings,    prejudice,    bias,
      ignorance, repressions, suppressions, coercion,  violence,
      wars, and mutually-assured-destruction.
      
          10.  True-Lovers liberating people  from their prisons
      of  unneeded-laws,  commandments and  prescriptions  which
      serve  only  the special-interests  of  Truly-Domineering-
      People and The-Domination-System.
      
          11.  Truly-Domineering-Leaders    of    Religious-and-
      Political-Parties claiming that  in  the  absence of their
      Self-Serving unneeded-laws, commandments and prescriptions
      ---    Their-Closely-Held-Community    will  disintegrate,
      become  chaotic,  be-disorderly ---  and not-be-profitable
      To-Their-God that is The Domination System".
      
                                  Shalom!
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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