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  %CONLICT IDEAL FORMS TRUE LOVERS SENSE RIGHT DUTY 050222
 %PLEASURE ENJOY FAITH HOPE LOVE DISTRIBUTE JUSTICE 050222
 %GIVE SHARE ACCEPT REJECT HOARD GREED COVET RIGHTS 050222
 %SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS INTIMATE FRIENDS LOVERS LAWS 050222
  %ALTERNATIVE PATHS WAYS PRIORITIES TRUTHS VIRTUES 050222
%RIGHTEOUSNESS SALVATION REDEMPTION RECONCILE OTHER 050222
      
                        There exists conflict between:
      
           True-Lovers' sense that they should have a RIGHT/DUTY
      to  be open-and-honest with each-other about how to  best-
      describe what they have experienced-together-in-Love
      
      
                                       and
      
           Truly-Domineering-People's  sense  that  they  should
      have  a  RIGHT/DUTY  to BE-IN-CONTROL of  how  True-Lovers
      experience being-together-in-Love  and  in cooperating  to
      best-describe-publicly    what  they  have    experienced-
      being-together-in-Love.
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           Which  is  more important/essential to  communal-and-
      personal integrity within a community:
      
           CONTROLLING what/how  people  do/describe while being
      balanced mutually-together in-Love,
      
                                       or
      
           Learning  integrative-lessons by  facilitating  True-
      Lovers' efforts to be well-integrated, learn  and grow-in-
      Love ---  by    seeking    to    be    truly-together   in
      cooperative/collaborative ways-of-Love?
      
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           Devising and  imposing  dominant-interpretations   of
      ancient-scriptures,
                                        or
      
           Learning  gracious lessons from  new-experiments-and-
      experiences  in  being: cooperative,  collaborative,   and
      together in-Love?
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           Maintaining a scarcity-of-Love as a control-strategy,
      
                                        or
      
           Promoting a  generous  supply of  Love as a gracious-
      facilitation-way toward personal-and-communal-integrities?
      
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           Concealing/confusing to pull together deceptions  and
      disintegration of the ways of False-Domineering people.
      
                                        or
      
           Highlighting  the coherence/integrity of the ways  of
      True-Lovers,
                                      =====
      
           Much depends upon what-kinds of thoughts,  attitudes,
      feelings  and  behaviors ---  elicit our public:  respect,
      honor, support, empowerment and reverence.    Be-aware and
      beware!  It will make a great deal  of  difference whether
      we honor DOMINEERING-PEOPLE, or True-Lovers, as community-
      leaders.
      
           Much also depends  upon  just-how we demonstrate our:
      respect,   honor,   support,  empowerment and reverence to
      whichever  leaders we choose as the most  worthy  leaders;
      with   or  without:   distributive-justice,   reconciling-
      justice,    integrative-justice;     power-concentrations,
      wealth-concentrations, influence-concentrations, etc.
      
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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