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 %LIVING LIMITED REALM WAR WEAPONS MASS DESTRUCTION 050216
 %SIGNALS PEOPLE SEND OTHERS APPROACH EFFORTS DEVIL 050216
   %RESOLVE MISUNDERSTAND CONFRUSION CHAOS TENSIONS 050216
 %CONFLICT IDEAL VALUE HOPE ASPIRE GOALS EXPECT SIN 050216
 %PRINCIPLE SCRIPT PARADIGM METHOD CONTROL VIOLENCE 050216
 %COERCION DOMINATION SUPERIOR TRUE DIALOGUE ALIENS 050216
      
           Why do wars rarely yield overall truly-sweet fruits?
      
           A  great deal depends upon the kinds of signals  that
      people send  to  each other as they  approach  efforts  to
      resolve:   misunderstandings,  confusion,  tensions,   and
      conflicts between/among their ---  ideals, values,  hopes,
      aspirations, goals,   expectations,  principles,  scripts,
      scriptures, paradigms, methods, etc.
      
           Human-Relationships do not  improve  when people send
      mutually  enforcing/encouraging  signals of:   unilateral-
      intent,  trying-to-be in-control,  intentions/expectations
      of being dominant, preparations-for-coercion, preparations
      for-violent-responses,   being-secretive, presuming-to-be-
      superior,     low-expectations      for     true-dialogue,
      expectations-of-winning-selfishly,    denigrating     dis-
      tributive-justice, etc.
      
           Human-Relationships  most  often improve when  people
      send  clear  and public signals  of:   cooperative-intent,
      being-willing  to share-goods,  seeking to-be-in extended-
      open-and-honest-dialogue,  being-hospitable,  being-civil,
      being-creative,    being-imaginative,     being-authentic,
      being-kind,    being-gracious,   being-non-violent,    and
      overall-being-reverent  while  promoting and  facilitating
      distributive-justice for-all.
      
           In any limited-realm, such as God's Space-Ship-Earth,
      cooperation among  those  who find themselves  within  the
      limited-realm  ---   is  essential  to  both  personal and
      communal   integralities  and  integrations.     The  more
      crowded  the limited-realm  is;   the more essential it is
      that   those   within  the  limited-realm   --- engage  in
      activities   which   are   truly:   cooperative,    civil,
      hospitable, welcoming, open, honest, authentic,  creative,
      imaginative, kind,  gracious,  non-violent, and protective
      of distributive-justice.
      
           The   more   weapons-of-mass-destruction  which   are
      present within the limited-realm; the more essential it is
      that ALL-people of  ALL-ages  who are  present  within the
      limited-realm   ---    understand   as-best-they-can   the
      implications  of  the above descriptions  of  the dilemmas
      which-face-them regarding trying to be:  more-safe,  more-
      secure,  more-invulnerable,  more-dominant, superior,  and
      more-in-control ---  than each-other within God's-limited-
      realm.
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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