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%ISSUES CONTROL DOMINATION PASSAGES TRANSITIONS GOD 050215
%PEACE STAGES GROWTH CONCRETE OPERATION LITERALISTS 050215
%PARABLE STORIES HISTORIC EVENTS DESCRIPTIONS DEVIL 050215
%WINNERS LOSERS DEFEATED ARMIES BATTLES ATTACKS SIN 050215
   %RELAX TENSION CONTEND LEARNING PERSPECTIVE BORN 050215
%REBIRTH REFORM CONTROL VIOLENCE POLARIZE RELIGIONS 050215
      
      
           Many issues-of-control pertain to:
      
            "passages",
      
              "transitions",
      
                "relaxations-of-tension",
      
                  "peace-making",
      
                    "stages-of-growth"
      
                      "kinds-of-learning"
      
                        "shifting-perspectives"
      
                          "being-born-again"
      
                            "repentance"
      
                              "portals"
      
                                "door-ways"
      
                                  "mystery"
      
           People  who  are  on  the  early-side  of  a  COMMON:
      "passage",   "stage-of-growth",  "transition",  "doorway",
      etc. ---
      
              are often frustrated at their own not being able
              to control  those who have made   the-mysterious-
              transition to the other-side of   the-mysterious-
              transition ---
      
                 and so are often-frustrated that they cannot
                 control the-mysterious-transition from their-
                 own-early-side of the-mysterious-transition
                 to the-other-side of the-mysterious-
                 transition.
      
           Participants    in    collusive-games-of-mutual-self-
      deception  have-a-sacred-duty  to  prevent any mysterious-
      transition out-of their-own  stuck-stage-of-growth  WITHIN
      their-own collusive-game-of-mutual-self-deception; WITHIN-
      A-COSMIC-EGG that they must not-let form-a-crack and  must
      not-let expand-or-change in any way.   Their-security lies
      within  lies-about  the  possibilities-of-transitions-into
      new kinds of PERSONAL-RELATIONSHIPS which ARE:
      
           Open, honest, authentic, inclusive, revealing;
      
           Spontaneous, Creative, Imaginative, Fantastic;
      
           Communal, Cooperative, Collaborative, Holistic;
      
           Principled, Integrative, Reconciling, Healthy;
      
           Accepted, Respected, Honored, Inclusive, Protected;
      
           Evolving, Changing, Dynamic, Dancing, Rhythmic;
      
           Liberating, Facilitating-Learning, Healing, Loving;
      
           Soft, Kind, Gracious, Civil, Generous, Just, Erotic;
      
                              - - - - - - - - - - -
      
           NOT: Cold, Frozen, Concrete, Hard, Stony, Rigid;
      
           NOT: Controlled, Violent, Managed, Coercive, Forced;
      
           NOT: Stuck, Bounded, Boxed-in, Tied-up, Limited;
      
           NOT: Pre-ordained, Pre-destined, Contractual;
      
           NOT: Programmed, Mechanical, Scripted, Planned;
      
           NOT: Hidden, Secret, Embarrassed, Conformal;
      
           NOT: Exclusive, Superior, Swank, Alienative;
      
           NOT: Abusive, Violent, Coercive, Addictive;
      
           NOT: Codependent, Individualistic, Independent;
      
           NOT: Rebellious, Angry, Resentful, Covetous;
      
           NOT: Conceited, Egotistical, Narcissistic; ETC.
      
                              - - - - - - - - - - -
      
           People who-have-passed-through the  above  transition
      cannot-be-controlled,  and so are an offense to those  who
      are tragically    stuck-playing-collusive-games-of-mutual-
      self-deception.
      
           The-Stuck-Ones have  as  their  ULTIMATE-CONCERN  the
      AVOIDANCE  of the:  Door,  Way,  Path,  Temptations,   and
      Mystery which they see  as  standing between them and  the
      utterly-fearful Apparent-Chaos  ON-THE-OTHER-SIDE and  IN-
      BETWEEN  them and the fearful  portal-to-a-different-kind-
      of-life.
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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