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 %KINDS INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS BUILD EVOLVE FACTORS 050219
%MEANING DOMINANT COTROL VIOLENT ADDICT CODEPENDENT 050219
 %COMPLEX INTERDEPENDENT COUNTLESS HONEST OPEN SEEN 050219
%RECCOGNIZE ACKNOWLEDGE ACCEPT PUBLIC WORK DESCRIBE 050219
 %POTENTIAL PARTICIPTE EMBED CRIPPLE INHIBIT COLLUD 050219
%DISHONEST RELIGIOUS LEADER DOCTRINE RITUAL PRAYERS 050219
      
           The  kinds of intimate-relationships which two people
      can  build  and  enjoy with each other  ---   depend  upon
      perhaps countless interdependent-factors.
      
           The interdependent-factors are countless --- if  they
      do  not  permit  themselves  to be  honestly  and  openly:
      recognized,  acknowledged,  accepted, and  publicly worked
      with.
      
           With  the above in mind we may begin to honestly  and
      openly: recognize, acknowledge,  accept  and publicly work
      with  some  of the many  interdependent-factors  suggested
      below;    and  maybe  even  count  some  of  them.     The
      interdependent-factors are likely to include:
      
           1.  The  extent  to which  potential-participants  in
      intimate  relationships are embedded in communities  which
      are crippled/inhibited  by  collusive-dishonest  games  of
      mutual   self:  deceptions,   manipulation,    domination,
      coercion, violation, degradation; rejections,  addictions,
      codependencies, etc.
      
           2.  The  extent to which the communities within which
      the  potential-participants  are  embedded  are  mutually:
      exclusive,      distrustful,    suspicious,    judgmental,
      threatening, etc.
      
           3.  The   extent   to  which  there  is  a  lack   of
      DISTRIBUTIVE-JUSTICE  within  the  potential-participants'
      various communities of all kinds:  familial, neighborhood,
      educational,  friendships,  travel,  musical,   spiritual,
      religious,    political,  work,   employment,  investment,
      business,   sports,   hobby,   intellectual,   scientific,
      service,   writing,  reading,  television,  entertainment,
      telephone, internet, etc.
      
           4.  As  with a lack of DISTRIBUTIVE-JUSTICE;  so also
      with  a  lack  of  each  other  ESSENTIAL-FOUNDATION   for
      personal-and-communal integrations-and-integrities.
      
           5.  How  far  each  potential-participant  has  moved
      through the typical stages of personal-growth-and-learning
      related  to:   concrete-operations,   objective-relations,
      reflexive-relations,    spiritual-relations,     concepts,
      linguistics, multiple-languages, multiple-cultures, group-
      dynamics,  formal-organizations, parables, myths,  poetry,
      songs, intimacy, sexual-relationships, etc.
      
           6.  The  extent to which  each  potential-participant
      has grown to respect and honor essential virtues such  as:
      honesty,  authenticity, transparency, openness,  kindness,
      civility,  hospitality, sharing, generosity,  inclusivity,
      cooperation,  collaboration,  friendships,   mutual-trust,
      balance,  mutuality, integrities, integrations, coherence,
      and gracious-covenants.
      
           7.  The  extent  to which each  potential-participant
      can  honor and respect the TRANSITIONS which are  involved
      in the above suggested growth-process;  and can honor  and
      respect the stages-of-growth which exist between/among the
      TRANSITIONS.
                               (c) 2004 by Paul A. Smith in
                            "Search for Honesty and Integrity"
                          (On Being Yourself Whole and Healthy)
      
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