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 %CAPITALIST HUMANE PROFIT LEARNED OWN PREVIOUS GOD 040824
 %IDOLATRY COMPLEMENTARY PARADOX DIALOGUE REFLECTED 040824
 %REFLEXIVE OBJECTIVE SUBJECTIVE RELATIONSHIP DEVIL 040824
  %AUTHORITATIVE COMMAND DEMAND PRESCRIBE PROSCRIBE 040824
   %MARKS LABELS DISTINGUISH DOMINEERING DOMINATION 040824
   %OWNERSHIP SYSTEMS ANALYSIS CAUSE EFFECT NATURAL 040824

    For each generation of humans to profit from what the
previous generation of humans have learned from their OWN
PREVIOUS EXPERIENCES --- it is essentual for the previous
generation  of  humans  to  be in dialogue with  the  new
generation   about:  their  OWN   previous   experiences,
reflections  upon  their  OWN  previous experiences,  and
conclusions  based  upon their OWN  previous  exeriences.
Note that the emphasis here is upon people's OWN PREVIOUS
EXPERIENCES;   not upon others' authoritative statements;
e.g., upon statements made by domineering people.

    Whem  domineering  people focus their own  and  other
people's attention upon Authoritative-statements-made-by-
domineering-people  and  denigrate  Authentic-statements-
made-by-True-Lovers  ---  each generation of humans WILL-
NOT  profit much  from what the previous  generations  of
humans have learned from their OWN PREVIOUS EXPERIENCES -
-- because it is essentual for the PREVIOUS-GENERATION of
humans  to be in DIALOGUE with the NEW-GENERATION  about:
their  OWN-PREVIOUS-EXPERIENCES,   their own  reflections
upon  their  OWN-PREVIOUS   EXPERIENCES,   and  their own
conclusions  based  upon  their  OWN-PREVIOUS-EXERIENCES.
Note that the emphasis here is upon people's OWN PREVIOUS
EXPERIENCES;  not upon others'  Authoritative-Statements;
e.g., upon   statements made by domineering-people.

    It  is  important that  we-each-on-our-own  recognize
domineering-people  in terms of their  current-behaviors;
rather  then  in terms  of  deomineering-people's  labels
pasted    upon    particular   people    in    presumably
authoritative-actions.   Only through our-own-experiences
which are thoughtful, graceful, and well-informed can we-
each-on-our-own  recognize domineering-people by how they
identify-themselves   in-terms-of-their-current-behaviors
which  are  NOT   arbitrary-labels-externally-applied-to-
them.

    Domineering-people   mark-themselves  and/or   label-
themselves  in   ways by which   we-each-on-our-own   can
recognized them --- by engaging in behaviors which are:

    1.  Dishonest, pretentious and/or misleading.
    2.  Arrogant and/or self-righteous.
    3.  Unilateral and/or undermine cooperation.
    4.  Contentious, disagreeable and/or demanding.
    5.  Coercive and/or violent.
    6.  Arbitrary, prejudicial and/or capricious.
    7.  Narcissistic, self-centered and/or egotistical.
    8.  Malicious, mean, and/or unkind.
    9.  Costly to people who are poor and/or vulnerable.
   10.  Likely to concentrate power/wealth excessively.

    There is no need for formal procedures to be used  to
label  domineering people as domineering people.   It  is
usually far more effective for True-Lovers to participate
in  informal  dialogue about their  own-observations  and
descriptions of the ways in which domineering people have
labeled-themselves   so   that   we-each-on-our-own   can
recognized them.

    In  the  absence  of domineering-people  and  in  the
absence of labels which are externally-applied ---  it is
possible to be honest-about and together-learn from  our-
own and each-other's:

    1.  Past and present experiences.
    2.  Hopes, aspirations, desires and yearnings.
    3.  Frustrations, anxieties, fears and mistakes.
    4.  Insights, understandings, and integrations.
    5.  Interpretations of others' authoritative views.
    6.  Descriptions of natural-cause-efffect processes.

    Within  true-sanctuaries  which are graciously  built
and  maintained  ---   the  above  honesty  and  learning
patterns are possible and often occur.

    In  the oppressive-presence of domineering-people and
in   the   oppressive-presence   of  labels   which   are
externally-applies  ---   it  is rarely  possible  to  be
honest-about  and together-learn  in the above  indicated
gracious ways.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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