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  %DOMINATION SYSTEM MYTH REDEMPTIVE VIOLENCE FEARS 040824
 %GAMES MUTUAL SELF DECEPTION PRETENTIOUS ARROGANCE 040824
 %CONTROL SELF OTHERS RESPOND ATTEMPTS MANAGE DEVIL 040824
 %EMOTIONS THOUGHTS DESIRES INTIMATE COMMUNICATIONS 040824
  %SEXUAL RESPONSES RELATIONSHIPS ALIENATED PEOPLES 040824
 %VICTIMS ADDICTION CODEPENDENT NATURAL LIMIT CAUSE 040824

    Domineering-people are playing  games-of-mutual-self-
deception  ---  pretending that they can:

    1.  Control  how others will respond to  domineering-
people's attempts to dominate, control, and manage-their-
fears.

    2.  Control   other  people's  emotions,    thoughts,
desires, and communications.

    3.  Control how other people-relate-to-each-other and
to domineering-people; i.e., control-human-relationships.

    4.  Control   both   good-relationships   and   evil-
relationships.

    5.  Control human-responses to evil-relationships.

    Domineering-people  pretend that there are no  limits
to who and what they can dominante and/or control and who
they  can  force  to bear the costs of their  efforts  to
dominant and/or be-in-control.

    Domineering-people pretend that there are no natural-
limits to what techniques, technologies,  and weapons can
be  used successfully in  achieving-dominance-and-control
over:  people,   fears,   emotions,  thoughts,   desires,
communications,  relationships,  responses,   intimacies,
love, alienation, excommunications, good, and evil.

    Domineering-people are  playing-games-of-mutual-self-
deception   ---    pretending that they DO-GOOD by  being
dominant and/or IN-CONTROL.

    Victims-of-such-efforts cannot eliminate-such-efforts
by  joining-in-such-efforts ---  pretending that victims-
of-such-efforts  can  DO-GOOD  by   becoming   themselves
dominant and/or IN-CONTROL of-such-efforts.  Such efforts
by  victims of the MYTH-OF-REDEMPTIVE-VIOLENCE  are  what
keep the MYTH-OF-REDEMPTIVE-VIOLENCE alive --- even while
it is killing most of its victims.   Consider and discuss
the  book "The Powers That Be"  by Walter Wink ---  which
speaks  of  these tragic realities  in  clear and hopeful
ways.
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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