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    %SELFISH CENTERED EGOTISTICAL NARCISSISTIC EVIL 040111
 %SPEND TIME RESOURCES DOMINATION SYSTEMS RELATIONS 040111
 %ATTACK CONFLICT WINNERS LOSERS BATTLES WARS BOMBS 040111
  %CONTESTS GAMES PEOPLE PLAY COLLUSIONS ADDICTIONS 040111
 %SELF ESTEEM STATUS REPUTATION HONOR PRIZE RESPECT 040111
 %CRUSADE RELIGION INTOLERANCE PREJUDICED SCRIPTURE 040111

     Truly  creative people focus their attention,  effort 
and spending-of-resources upon improving  the  quality  of 
human  relationships  and  human  lives;   e.g.,   working 
COOPERATIVELY  to  improve:  housing,    meals,  clothing, 
education, health-care, communication-means, and dialogue.  
The  challenges  which they accept are not:   destructive, 
winning  at  the expense of other  people's  loss,   about 
domination, or about  control.    Conflicts between humans 
are  not  promoted  by truly creative  people.    Creative 
humans' goal is to truly  resolve destructive conflicts so 
that people can work constructively/cooperatively together 
towards common goals. 
     
     In contrast,  domineering people are often trapped in 
futile efforts to win at each other's expense.   They  are 
indifferent  to people's needs to provide for each  other: 
improved  housing,  meals,  clothing,  education,  health- 
care,   and  examples of  healthy  communication-patterns.  
Dominators    are    self-centered,     ego-centric    and 
narcissistic.   Even when they are presumably dedicated to  
"good-causes"   their  real  concerns  are  self-centered, 
pertaining to themselves being the dominant leader. 
  
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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