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%DOMINEERING PEOPLE HIDE SECRETS VULNERABILITY SINS 031012
%PRIVATE DESIRE MOTIVATIONS INTENTIONS INHIBIT GODS 031012
%VULNERABLE INTIMATE DIALOGUE LOVER PRESENCE VIRTUE 031012
%PEACEMAKER TRUE LOVERS RECONCILE CONFLICT RESOLVED 031012
%TRUST RISK LEARN GROW CHANGE HONEST DIALOGUE GRACE 031012
%REDUCE FEAR ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT SUSPICION EVIL 031012

     The parallelly  constructed lines  in  the  following
similar   but contrasting two sections ---  are  numbered-
in-like-ways   so  as  to  to  help  readers  compare  and
contrast   similar,   but  sometimes  contrasting,    line
contents.

     Domineering-people fear that each-other-stranger will
discern their  own private:  desires,   motivations,   and
intentions  ---  and  thereby discern their own points-of-
vulnerability and so have the advantage  in  launching-an-
attack.

     1,  Domineering-people work-to-HIDE FROM-each-other
     2,  their own POINTS-OF-VULNERABILITY;  e.g.,
     3,  their own private:
     4,  desires, motivations and intentions --- and
     5,  so INHIBIT communications, understandings,
     6,  cooperation and colaboration with each-other. 

     7,  They-work-to avoid-the-fearful-possibilities of
     8,  being-DANGEROUSLY-vulnerable with-each-other
     9,  in-intimate-dialogue within-Love's-Presence. 

    10,  Controllers-work-to facilitate-possibilities of
    11,  ACHIEVING-INVULNERABILITY-IN-ISOLATION from
    12,  open-and-honest dialogue and/or coopertion;
    13,  with-each-other within-ALIENATIVE-CONFLICTS
    14,  in the Presence-of-ESTRANGEMENT and FEAR.

     True-Lovers are ready,  willing, and able to learn to
know each other more intimately --- and to facilitate each
other's creativity in doing so.

     1.  True-Lovers       work-to-SHARE WITH-each-other
     2.  THEIR-OWN-TRUE-NATURES and ways-of-growing; e.g.,
     3.  their own private:
     4.  desires, motivations and intentions --- and
     5.  so FACILITATE communications, understandings,
     6.  cooperation and colaboration with each-other.

     7.  Lovers work to facilitate-the-possibilities of
     8.  being-SAFELY-vulnerable with-each-other
     9.  in-intimate-dialogue within-Love's-Presence.

    10.  Lovers-work-to facilitate-the-possibilities of
    11.  discerning-and-accepting-the-possibilities of
    12.  gifts-of-the-freedom of-being-safely-vulnerable
    13.  with-each-other within-INTIMATE-DIALOGUE
    14.  in the Presence-of-LOVE and TRUST.

                          - - - - - - -

     True-Lovers-do-understand the Controllers'-Fears.

     Controllers-do-NOT-understand the True-Lovers-Trust.

                          - - - - - - -

     True-Lovers REDUCE  fears by nurturing greater TRUST.

     Controllers AUGMENT fears by nurturing greater FEARS.

                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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