This is http://www.essayz.com/b0103082.htm Previous-Essay <== This-Essay ==> Following-Essay Click HERE on this line to find essays via Your-Key-Words. {Most frequent wordstarts of each essay will be put here.} ========================================================== %NONCONFORMIST TROUBLE CREATIVE DEALING RELATIONS+010308 %CONTROL DISCIPLINE PUNISHMENT CRUCIFY IMPRISONED+010308 %UNDERSTAND SUBVERT LOVERS INTEGRATE DISCIPLINE+010308 %CONFLICT RESOLUTION PEACEMAKER COOPERATE REGULATE+010308 %TOLERATE DOMINATION SYSTEM LEGALISM JUDGEMENTAL 010308 Creative nonconformists often trouble conformists --- because conformists have a difficult time: Dealing with and relating to creative nonconformists. Trying to control, discipline, punish nonconformists. Understanding, subverting, regulation nonconformists. Tolerating, dominating, being at ease with them. Respecting and/or cooperating with nonconformists. Conformists and nonconformists find it difficult to communicate meaningfully --- because they start with fundamentally different attitudes, assumptions and beliefs. Often certain words and phrases mean different things to them. Often there is protracted conflict between conformists and nonconformists --- because the conformists feel obligated to try to control nonconformists. In order to protect their integrities nonconformists subvert the efforts of conformists to be in control --- in keeping with the biddings of "The Domination System". Neither kind of people can gracefully respect the other's affirmations, nor can they see how to transcend their fundamental differences. They cannot conceive of Love showing any way for them to transcend their fundamental differences. (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy) ==========================================================