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    %USE ABUSE FEAR GUILT SHAME BLAME PUNISH REJECT+010301
    %CONDEMNATION EXCOMMUNICATION ISOLATION PRISONS+010301
  %LETTING GO ABANDONMENT RELAXATION LIBERATION GOD+010301
  %SIN DEVIL ALIENATION ESTRANGEMENT RECONCILIATION+010301
  %ARROGANCE SELF RIGHTEOUS DOMINATION SYSTEM MEANS 010301
                                                          
     Domineering  people  are  so fully  dedicated  to the
maintenance of the "The Domination System"  --- that their
acts  of  "worship"  entail the use and abuse  of:   fear,
guilt, shame, blame, punishment, condemnations, rejection,
excommunication AND the isolation of "guilty"  individuals
and "labeled groups"  ---  regardless of their  consequent
loss of personal and communal integrities.                
                                                          
     "The Domination System" is their god.                
                                                          
     In fear domineering people  engage  in disintegrative
forms of idolatrous worship --- of that which is not worth
any honor, respect or support.                            
                                                          
     They  project  their fears outward  ---  and  try  to
control all that upon which  they have projected their own
fears.                                                    
                                                          
     Domineering  people  are  unable  to  own  their  own
emotions  and so they try to  distance   themselves   from
their  own emotions ---by projecting  their  own  emotions
onto others in an objectification process --- so that they
can then  try to control others as emotion-laden object --
-   in rituals  which  they hope will purge themselves  of
their fears.                                              
                                                          
     True Love  casts  out  fear  in  trancendent  acts of
reconciliation and  healing  which subvert "The Domination
Systems" of domineering people.                           
                                                          
     Domineering  people fear any transcendence  of  their
"Domination  Systems"  ---  for to them  their "Domination
Systems"   are  their   gods  upon  whom   their  meaning,
significance,   and  security depend.   Their  "Domination
Systems"  demands that they play collusive games of mutual
self  deception to maintain appearances of being worthy of
honor,  respect and support.  They cannot "with integrity"
let  go,   abandon,  or clearly see  all  the personal and
communal disintegrations  which their "Domination Systems"
lead to.    In ignorance and  confusion domineering people
persist in  their idolatrous  worship of their "Domination
Systems"   which   systematically   engender   alienation,
estrangement and evil personal relationships.             
                                                          
     There are at least three "kinds" of domination.      
                                                          
     1.  Intentional-Offensive Domination                 
                                                          
     2.  Indifferent/Accidental Domination                
                                                          
     3.  Intentional-Defensive Domination                 
                                                          
                   - - - - - - - - - -                    
                                                          
     Healthy-Victims see dominations as disintegrative.   
                                                          
     Indifferent/Accidental people/victims see a fog.     
                                                          
     Collusive-Victims see dominations as inevitable.     
                                                          
     To transcend "The Domination System" we need to learn
how to let-go-of,  abandon,  leave-behind,  relinquish and
abdicate --  all forms of domination because they are all:
disintegrative,  collusive, addictive and beneficiaries of
codependent supporters who are in a fog.                  
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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