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%TRUE LOVER BALANCE PRUDENT WISE KIND SENSITIVE GOD+010222
 %COMPLIMENT SELF OTHER TRULY INVULNERABLE EXCHANGE+010222
%ATTENTIVE NEEDS DESIRES MEANING SYMBOL TRUST DEVIL+010222
%CONTROL DOMINATE SYSTEM TECHNOLOGY MANAGE COMMANDS+010222
%GRACIOUS GENEROUS RESPONSIVE GIVING RECEIVE ASKING+010222
%TELLING LISTENING PREOCCUPATION RELATIONSHIP BINDS 010222
                                                          
     TRUE LOVERS are balanced, prudent, wise and kind in  
                                                          
          sensitively complimenting each other:           
                                                          
     by each being truly vulnerable with each other,      
                                                          
         by exchanging gifts of the freedom to be         
          safely venerable with each other, and           
                                                          
    by being attentive to each other's needs/desires.     
                                                          
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  ADDICTS are unbalanced, imprudent, unwise and mean in   
                                                          
             callously insulting each other:              
                                                          
  by seeking to be safely invulnerable with each other,   
                                                          
         by demanding gifts of the freedom to be          
    fully in control as the most dominant person, and     
                                                          
   by being indifferent to each others's needs/desires.   
                                                          
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   TRUE LOVERS are gracious, generous, & responsive in    
   giving, receiving; asking, and telling & listening.    
                                                          
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     ADDICTS are mean, selfish, & non-responsive in       
     getting, taking; demanding, lecturing & isolation.   
                                                          
                   = = = = = = = = = =                    
                                                          
     TRUE LOVERS focus upon facilitating relationships    
     which empower, enrich, liberate and heal each other. 
                                                          
                   - - - - - - - - - -                    
                                                          
     ADDICTS focus upon self-centered preoccupations which
     dominate, impoverish, imprison and sicken each other.
                                                          
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     TRUE LOVERS engage in open & honest symbolic actions.
                                                          
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     ADDICTS dominate through dishonest symbolic actions. 
                                                          
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     We cannot be well and do well in the absence of being
aware  of and talking openly and honestly about the  above
contrasts.                                                
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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