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  %DISAGREEABLE NEGATIVE ADVERSE DENY DENIAL OPPOSE+000404
    %CONTROLS DISCIPLINE DOMINATION SYSTEM DICTATOR 000404
                                                          
     Why  is  it  that some people  are  so  disagreeable,
negative  and  prone  to deny what  other  people  affirm?
Perhaps  it is because they have fallen into the traps  of
"The Domination System" wherein it is their duty to try to
be  in  control of other  people's  attitudes,   thoughts,
desires,  hopes, aspirations, fears, joys, etc. --- to get
them to conform to prescribed ways.    To be successful in
such an  effort with God's family of diverse children  ---
entails  saying  "NO"   to an awful lot  of  creative  and
divergent inclinations.   It is dangerous to grant any  of
God's  family  of  diverse  children  the  freedom  to  be
independent,   creative,  or in open and  honest  dialogue
about efforts to dominate and be in control of them.  Such
diversity  and  freedom cannot be affirmed;  said YES  to.
This  means that most often the key meaning of what  needs
to be said is NO, NO, NO, NO!                             
                                                          
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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