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%BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS FRIENDSHIPS COMMUNITY+981229      
    %DIALOGUE LISTENING RESPONSIVE DIALOGUE HONESTY+981229                                  
   %TRUST RESPECT HOPE ASPIRATION COOPERATION SHARE 981229                                      
                                                                                                                               
     Often  in  life the qualities of the friendships  and                                                                     
relationships  among cooperative peoples are as  important                                                              
than the particular goals and activities which they share.                           
Goals  and qualities of relationships are inter-dependent.                      
                                                                                                                               
     Health goals and healthy  relationships  go together.                                                              
Disintegrative  goals and disintegrative relationships  go                                          
together.                                                                                                                      
                                                                                                                               
     1.  People   cannot   work   together   on  achieving                                                                    
disintegrative   goals   --- without  their  relationships                                                              
disintegrating.                                                                   
                                                                                                                               
     2.  When        people's       relationships      are                                                              
disintegrating--- they  cannot  cooperate  with each other                                                               
in fulfilling integrative goals.                                                                   
                                                                                                                               
     3.  People  whose relationships are characterized  by                                                              
personal and communal integrity and integration are people                                                                
whose  goals  pertain to developing personal and  communal                                                                
integrity.                                                                   
                                                                                                                               
     4.  People  whose relationships are characterized  by                                                              
conflict,   tension,   con-tension,  violence,   coercion,           
fragmentation,   and fragmentation ---  are  people  whose                                                                    
goals are disintegrative.                                                                   
                                                                                                                               
     We may recognize the value of people's goals in terms                                                 
of the value of people's relationships; and vice versa.                                                 
                                                                                                                               
                                                                                                                               
                         (c) 2005 by Paul A. Smith in      
                    (On Being Yourself, Whole and Healthy)  
                                                                                                                               
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